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xanhstar
How do your parents react when they find out you listen to korean music or watch korean dramas even though you're not korean?
HERO
My parents don't care. smile.gif Sometimes, they watch korean dramas on tv too.
pooface
My parents dnt mind .. they like watchin korean dramas themselves! .. smile.gif but they perfer historial versions that are melodramas!

but do make fun out of me listenin to korean music .. like ..u understand? .. smile.gif .. giggly type.. nothin biggy
angelcadex
I must admit they were a little weirded out at first, it's just different to them.
But they don't mind ^^
_obsession
it was my auntie who introduced me to korean media.
my whole family is practically into korean dramas.lucky me, i guess smile.gif
The Legend
My parents and my family don't care. I even got my dad to listen to Jinusean..and he likes them lol. But sometimes some of my other family members are all like, why do you listen to the ching chong music? and i really don't like it when they do that. But usually they don't bother me about it.
kuli
I don't think any parent really cares if their kids listen to a different language song or drama as long as the song isn't filled with foul language. My parents don't really care.
moonies
my parents don't care..in fact, they watch korean drama with me (our chinese channel have korean drama dubbed)
OBSCURE Sin
I'm going to replace "Korean" with "Japanese" because its the same situation for me. I'm not Japanese but I listen to the music, watch the anime etc.

I reckon my mum thought it was a little bizarre at first, but I've always been quite internationally conscious so I guess she didnt find it too weird. I think she finds interesting that I listen to foreign music/watch foreign programmes. I think what she does find a little weird is that my favourite bands of choice play mostly very heavy rock, and are - to her - more than a little bit creepy XD (<3 Dir en grey and The GazettE) Then there's the whole VK androgyny thing.

I'm not close to my dad, so I dont think he really knows about my J-obsessions. But he probably wouldnt think much of it either way.
`faded
they don't care O_O..haha..cause they know I also embrace my own chinese culture fully haha XD..they're pretty open minded XD..LOL..
StarCrystal
D: "Why don't you listen to more Vietnamese music?"
r/\inbow
japanese for me.
parents dont mind XDD
saolaoane
i dont think my parents mind. they just ask me "do you understand what they're saying?"
xiong_mau
I started woth chinese at first.. My parents at first.. quite okay with it..
When i hear chinese radio.. My parents will asked "Do you actually understand??"...
then i will answer "no.. not exactly".. Hahaha~

But now.. I more to korean.. they use to it already... hehehe~
x SaRaNg HaE x
My parents didn't care; they just left me alone.
But my mom started watching Korean dramas once I started watching.
Spiritm
my parents have no reaction they think it's good to be into other cultures plus my sister listens to spanish artists soo.
Velocitii
they dont care, they care that i listen to rap, because the only words they understand are the curse words
tontamoo
My parents don't care. My mom knows that I like Korean food (she likes it too) and listening to Korean music. I listen to Chinese music and English songs too.

My mom only thought it was weird when I was super obsessed with H.O.T. back in high school. During those days she did ask why do I like them -- that they looked like girls (haha) and why do I listen to it if I can't understand what they're saying. Now I'm not obsessed with any band in particular -- no collection pictures or reading lyrics anymore. I just have it on my playlist.
straw.ME
They dont really mind!
My parents watch all kinds of movies
like Thai Chinese Japanese.
anything thats good so they dont mind.

~Meishsh0rt <3
Joanna
my parents dont mind cuz they watch Korean dramas themselves.. but my dad sometimes gets annoyed haha
sweet_treats1812
they kinda think it's amusing and they smile when they hear me listening to it..sometimes they ask if i understand it and i say, yeah i get some words laugh.gif it's really no biggie to them i guess...
minie_k89
they don't care at all...
but my brother-in-law find me weird...
when i'm listening to korean song and he comes into my room,i would turn off the music immediately..
it's so awkward...
don't know why...?? dry.gif
Mae!
My parents don't even know haha
My mom does't like the whole korean craze in the Philippines but she doesnt get mad.
My dad is okay with anything biggrin.gif
Kisetsu
I watch Korean Dramas, and I listen to Japanese rock music... my mom just thinks I'm weird and she makes fun of me alot of the time. It kinda bugs me, and she knows it, but oh well.

I'm not real close with my dad. He knows of one band that I listen to.. known as "that Japanese band" (my mom knows the name of the band). He doesn't say much, and even if he did, I wouldn't care.
Lindoodoo
My mom: (fob voice) "What? Yoo like Korean? Whai yoo like Kohreahn for?"

.____.;;

But other than that, they don't really care. ^^
ricmindy
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they don't care at all...
but my brother-in-law find me weird...
when i'm listening to korean song and he comes into my room,i would turn off the music immediately..
it's so awkward...
don't know why...?? dry.gif


I understand sleep.gif
I always listen to Korean music thru earphones or turn down the volume of the speakers...
Like I've something to hide. But my parents aren't making fun of me, just that when they flip thru Korean TV channels they'll make comments like they speak funny and try to imitate them. So I don't really want them to know that I like Korean music...
mimiyenx
even though they think i spend too much time watching dramas, they can't really do much, since they do so too (but no as much XD)
꿈DREAM
My family has actually come to tolerate it and understand. My sister will occasionally make comments, same with my mom. they'll say something like "NO! your not putting YOUR music on! We're not listening to Korean music" -____- makes me mad usually.

My family ask me if I understand it I just go "YUP!" and leave it like that. rofl tongue.gif


My older sister has really been accepting of me listening to Asian stuff, even if she is quiet ignoring about it. >___<
joogrlpekaun
They think it's a little weird, but they don't mind at all. They're usually not too interested themselves, but sometimes they're a little curious. I think they respect it, especially since my mother loves Bollywood films and her favorite singer used to be Claudio Baglioni when she was younger. She was the one who gave me a tape of the The Lion King soundtrack when I was little in Spanish instead of English, too, which I loved to death.
aznxmushu
im half korean but like my mom she acts as iff i'm not... the funny thing is when she sees my watch or listens to korean stuff she says...

"now i know who your going to marrie when you get older"
JapaneseObesession
my mom used to be on my back about that a lot

but now that I've also been listening to classical music and Chinese music, she's like "she'll convert FULLY to Chinese MUAHAHAHA" (mellow.gif errrr...)

so yeah. She doesn't care as much as long as I still remember I'm Chinese^^;
clazzi.sky
my dad's like "oh, koreans again?" lol he doesn't really care i guess. but sometimes he asks me why don't i listen to chinese music more, or watch chinese movies.
★ rain-a-sky ★
me: *watching korean drama*
my mom: what are you watching?
me: *states drama name*. It's a korean drama.
mom: WHAT? WHY ARE YOU WATCHING THAT STUFF? It doesn't help you learn at all and is a waste of time! You should be STUDYING! All those dramas only have boys and girls getting together and it's so unproductive, turn that off right now!
me: tears.gif

yup, so that's basically how it goes with my mom =_______=''
BobaMilkTea
mom: "Stop watching."
me: "How come you get to watch K-Drama all day but I can't ;("
mom: "...because I'm older!"
me: "That doesn't have to do with anything."
*kissing scene*
mom: "You should focus more on homework than this."
she thinks all kdramas are really lovey dovey -.-
--joyful.
my mom laughs and says "do u even know what they're saying?!"
me: yea [learned some]

n then she starts singing some old song thats not even korean
n says "ur prolly gonna end up marrying a korean guy in the future"
me: hmm

so yea xD my parents think ive gone crazyy
chocopocky
My parents don't care since they love Korea!
lilazngrl
they don't care
they watch it too =D
ah-jefu
They don't mind tongue.gif I watch all dramas subbed in mandarin or cantonese. asian is all the same to mee, as long as it's good biggrin.gif

they watch with me >=D i'm that alluring @_@
Juliang
my parents thought it was strange at first but now they think its cool (korean)

as for japanese, they don't care because i have japanese relatives and my parents understand the language.
angel2nyt
my mom and relatives love watching korean dramas.. and when i mean love, i mean repeating it for 10 times(like stairway to heaven) to the point that even my younger brother who doesnt really watch it knew all the characters' names

besides i still love listening to opm and watching local dramas
xLunacy
Practically all the women in my family are into the korean stuff. My dad just said "Not you too..." tongue.gif
kayla.
They think I'm crazy. Probably only cause I stay up really late watching Super Junior videos on youtube sleep.gif

But my mom watches Korean dramas too. However, I sing suju/dbsk songs all around the house and everyone except my dad has it stuck in their head at times haha.
Justalilodreamer
hahaha they don't care, but my sister calls me a korean-wannabe tongue2.gif
kriza_09
my mom was the first one in my family who got into those hallyu stuff.. she likes korean dramas so much.. lol.. she was the one saying korean men are hot when i said no they're not and they have weird hairstyles.. she can stay up all night watching those korean dramas..
luvinkhero
HAHA my dad dosen't reely care ;]
he just goes korean again?? cos he has korean friends too AHAHAHA ;;
my bro is weird =/ GET OVER IT
me; shut up

pactically my room is filled with korean stuff
chic_
the only care when it gets in the way of my schoolwork - which it sorta did during my last year of high school. Even tough i did get good marks, it wasn't my best because of kdrama distractions.

otherwise, my mum would say: "Are you going to marry a korean boy?"
a.p.r.i.l
yup they don't really care
lol when they angry ... it gets mention a lot though ....
and when i buy kpop cd's ... my mom would be like.. uh okay ... then when she's angry .. she'll say.. you keep buying those useless stuff .. blah blah blah
chinguz
hehe reading some of those posts are funny.
My parents dont mind, its when i listen to my own lang. they stop and ask something or if they hear explicit words.

my brother on the other hand.. when his around it will be like "So can you put on some real music?".

weirdo
my parents makes me do what i want to do... i urge my dad to listen to kor songs...he's so-so about it but my mom dislikes it. she asked me how can i appreciate the song when i couldnt even understand the lyrics and message of the song..the truth is i dunno why..i just do.
azn_sisitjuh
well i dun think they care... lol =P...
I think they even dunno about it haah lol =P...
My parents sometimes watch korean drama's...
There are just on the Chinese tv.. =)
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