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My parents have them once in awhile.
When they get into a fight, it is REALLYYYY huge and scary.

You have no idea..being an only child and actually looking at your parents have a big fight..its scary as hell.


How about u guys?
Do your parents have those really biggg fights?
what do u do when they have them?


for me i lock myself in my room and put the music to full blast wacko.gif
angelic_diablo
I guess I'm lucky that my parents never fight or at least I've never seen them fight at all. They sometimes disagree and annoy each other but it never got to a point where they got into a fight. They seem to be content or happy with each other all the time.






edit: how come my post is the 1st post? its supposed to be 2nd since im replying to this thread. weird..
konayuki28
ya, they do.

what i do? hm.. lets see-- i tend to listen to music because i cant really do anything to stop-
coz they have their own minds.
ICE Coffe
yea. my parents would fight about almost every single thing.
they are like the total opposite. i just ignore it. when i was little i was scared of something bad happening but now its like whatever.
its not as much fighting as it was before but over time they just fight.
Antz
YES. and they constantly have mini fights, too.
especially yesterday, they fought ALL day. so my sister and i told them to stfu because it's christmas. =_=
addickshun
yeah when they both scream at each other
you can practically feel the whole house is shaking :x
Classic Example
Yes. It's pretty annoying really, since I don't have an escape. sleep.gif I just let them fight it out, but my brother's the peacemaker. laugh.gif He'll usually go and tell them to break it up. Then being in the middle of their hostility isn't enjoyable. sleep.gif
angel2nyt
i remember when i was 8 or 9.. and i had a fever.. gosh.. how can i not remember that night..
my body temp was 40-41 degrees celsius(they were scared that i was going to break the thermometer)
and my world was literally spinning..
and there they were fighting..
and since i was in a confused state.
i really didnt understand what they were saying..


thank goodness my grandmother was there..
i wished my fever ended that soon too though
Mandu
^^ Woo, same here! xD My brother is also the peacemaker but since he moved out, I'm stuck with the, "Am I right, Susan?!" "No! SHE AGREES WITH ME BLAHBLAH!" -argues some more-

Me: Guys, I'm tryin' ta do my homework here, if ya don't mind. Could'ja keep it down a little? C:

I'm pretty used to it and 90% of their "big fights" are pretty pointless, so meh.
charzzy
the last big fight i witness between my parents was about.. 10 years ago. then they later didnt communicate much. sleep.gif...
they should just divorce already.
sad, really.
cpopbaby19
Yeah. they had it recently.. like 2 days ago. mellow.gif

well, i just try to shut them up-- but of course i'm the one who gets shut upped. sleep.gif'' oh gosh, parents..
trueloveaffairs-
hmm i guess i should say im pretty lucky?
cause my parents dont have those big fights.

worse come to worse, some kind of disagreement, then my mum will go sulk for awhile.
and ignore my dad.
but after that, all's well.
Pandapple
when my mom is mad at my dad she just lock the room door and have him sleep in the couch or when my dad knows he stin after going to a party and know that my mom is mad he sleeps in the couch and the next day they talk like normal again
meteorstarbb829
during the 14 years i`ve been alive they only had 2 big major fights so far.
which was this year and 2004 i think ?
they fight over small things but they seem to resolve it so quickly.

QUOTE
"Am I right, Susan?!" "No! SHE AGREES WITH ME BLAHBLAH!" -argues some more-

i hate it when my dad includes me. sleep.gif
he goes "didn`t you see this or that ? tell your mother . blah blah blah"
i am alice
nah they just have little arguments,
but never physical fights.
blah they fight over stupid stuff anyways.
vip_gd
argue but not really fight
my dad hardly comes home anyways
RussianButterfly
yeah, every day.
they have almost been divorced,...like 2 times.
Vacations and the Holidays are always the most horrible.

the only reason they stay together is for my dad : keeping up appearances
and my mom : to give her children all the chances(including money) to have a better life than hers.
star@soompi.com
They argue all the time..the small arguements. My dad always says that - back in the days - he was way out of my moms league and how good -looking he was. He also says he cooks wayyy better than my mom(which is true). Then she gets irritated and screams at ME like "Do the dishes right now!!" It's so annoying but I'm used to it by now! smile.gif
&._Euphoria
Not really. Dad has big ego but always succumb to mum. biggrin.gif
innocia
Yes, when I was younger, like 7 years old?
They argued really badly and didn't speak to each other for awhile. It was really scary because the tension in the house was terrible. I was young so I didn't know what to do.

They don't argue as much now, just mini arguments once in awhile biggrin.gif.
iPandaBear
Yes, they do.
Example: Last weekend
hah :x
Ivy202
Yeah, they tend to fight a lot simetime sthey even get into the point where "divorce" comes too. I just hate it! Aren't they suppose to be the idol for us kids to see when we grow up? They are so immature...marry and then divorce. What a great drama...
woaini715
omg, this happened a couple of weeeks back. my parents fight, well all parents do. but that time, it was a really huge fight over something dumb like money>_< my mom kicked my dad outta the bedroom and they avioded eachother. parents are VERY immature when they fight-_-"
miss ambrosia x3
my parents fight once in a while. i feel like its part of a healthy relationship though. communication is important, and so id rather have them fight and talk it out then bottle it up, explode, and divorce.

divorce has come up a couple of times though since my dad is unable to compromise to anything and constantly complains. i take their fights as learning experiences though. no marriage is perfect, it takes two people for it to work.

but i guess the fight that was the most scary was when my mom lost 500,000$ on the stock market... two years back. my dad was realllllyyyy angry. but she made it all back, so theyre okay now. i would imagine that if they were to ever get divorced, it would be over emotional abuse on my dads part rather than monetary issues though.
janelforsure
Ahhh! YES! I hate it. I get so scared. Once the cops came and stuff. My brother got in the
fight and him and my brother haven't talked since. That was like 4 years ago. Or 3. It's sad.
Such a hard family. My 2 brothers don't talk to my oldest brother, and the 2 brothers that don't
talk to my brother, also don't talk to my dad. My family's a mess.
~Manyh
Yes when I was around 4 or something and then between my teen years lol hahah
They do argue but only small ones now!!!
joolee.
My parents often do when I was younger but I got use to it after a while. =\
onewhite lie
There was this once HUGE fight, biggest I've ever witnessed.
But other than that one they just disagree with attitude a lot.
fallenbroke




Well , yeah , definitely ! Actually my dad's really petty . In my opinion . So hmmm . Big fights at home = Cold war . And it's so tiring for me ! I suddenly turn from kid to messenger . Tell your mum this , tell your dad that . dry.gif I get so annoyed sometimes I pretend I'm sleeping . LOL !

Fortunately for me my parents don't fight as often ! And I have a brother , which makes life much easier ! sweatingbullets.gif
0rchid
i wish my parents would fight. all my mom ever does is b*tch about my dad. she can't even go half a week without complaining. i actually feel bad for my dad. he tries so hard but all he gets is crap from her.
khmer_chick2010
Every freaking weekend. It's only on weekends because that's when my dad is home from work.
He's always the one yelling over nothing at all and he just goes on and on and on about crap!
They've only been fighting like this ever since my grandma (my dad's mom) moved into our house
years ago. Gosh.
1S0ULL
Nope. But my mom gets annoyed by my dad easily.. Actually, the whole family does. But it's just the way he is. He is really controlling and stubborn >__>" Guys and their huge egos...
Me and my brothers are closer with my mom cause its easier to connect with her XD When I try to talk things out with my dad, I get really frustrated T_T
Joanna
sometimes.. not like reallly big ones though.. just ones that they argue and stuff. sometimes they talk SO loud i think they are fighting but they are not lol.
Bubble89
yeah..really big fight but that was like few years ago.
they didn't talk to each other for days and it was because of money..
cause my father mood can be crazy. I remember i was eating my breakfast and crying at the same time. BELIEVE ME!!! it was not pleasant.
my mum is the quiet type who just keep quiet when my father scolds her. It was heartbreaking to see my mum got scolded and i can't do anything.
Apple Star
They always have quarrels yeah.
My mum will always start to bring up topics that makes my dad angry.
She likes to repeat things again and again.
You know, mums. They like to nag. And they can do that for hours long. wacko.gif

One day, around last September, they had big fight in the middle of the night.
My dad beat my mum with pillows - hey, at least it's better than hammer. sleep.gif
My brothers were crying and one of them protected my mum from being hit. rolleyes.gif

I don't mind they fighting often.
As long as they don't end up divorced, it's already fine to me.

I know, I'm a bad person to say such things. phew.gif
xx_emiliem_xx
I guess I'm lucky.. my parents never fight. They're happy
There might have been the ONE time in Vancouver when I was six or something
and my mom started to cry for some reason
but my dad was really angry.
★jace★
they have cold wars.

me and my bro would hide in either one of our rooms together till the war ends. cos if not, either one of us will get it.
Jaejoongx3
Wows . My parents don't really fight .
And i can say that my family is very happy x) . Loving it xD .

TVXQ Fighting <33s .
desertseatingoceans
Sorta. There are times when my dad takes the little things and make it bigger than it really is than raises his voice at my mom. I hate it and it pisses me off.
touchthesky
umm yeah they fight a lot. like randomly too. sometimes about stupid stuff. but they get over it really quick.. and divorce has never come up.

its basically cuz they're both too alike in some ways... clash too much so they always think they're right and never listen to the other.

i dont really care when they fight. i just ignore it until its over. sometimes it takes as long as a few months to be over but it always eventually ends so i never worry. the only thing that bugs me when they fight is that we cant do anything as a family. usually we'd all go shopping, go out to eat so when they fight none of that happens and i get rly annoyed
bAbystAr_jjUngg
they do it too much.
sometimes, i wonder why they don't just freaking divorce with my mommy moving to korea and taking me with her.
sleep.gif;

page own. what is up with me today? =)
sentuhmentalfo0l
i've never seen my parents yell/scream at each other
but when my mom is annoyed/mad at my dad
she always threatens to get a divorce
forgottenmemories
I've only seen my parents fighting once in my life. I believe it was when I was about 6-7. But that was the only time they've ever gotten into a big fight. It scared the heck out of me.
mizzxangie
my parents are already divorced ph34r.gif
but when they do talk it's like...... tears.gif
lotsa yelling.. rolleyes.gif
Hιtσмι
My mom and dad had those big verbal fights
It's quite scary because you don't know what to say
and technically you cant really stand sides because....either one will hung u down later on \(*`∧´)/
They got tired of fighting with each other so my mom moved back to Japan =___=!!!
One of my brother use to be the peace maker of all this

I still remember my mom tried to throw a vase at my dad hahaha
but it was kinda big and heavy so plan failed. O___O!!!
peanutbutterox
my parents do from time to time. but when they do i will go into my computer room and turn up the volume of the speakers to zone out their shoutings.
lucky*13
Mine just have 2-3 sentence conversations.
When they really fight, my mom just yells the whole thing while my dad glares.
I gave up on them fighting already. So I just sit there continue on what I am doing...
Rajdeep
All the time dry.gif I just leave the room..
LunaDiviner
Hardly. But they can fight over the most stupidest thing.. ie, broccoli.. I was just sitting there thinking, WTF! You're fighting over broccoli! Gimme a break!! dry.gif
charm__bracelet*
i am the only child and they have fights ALL THE TIME.
it's scary...and like i guess i get really emotional about it...and i dont want to hear them fight so then i just turn on my mp3 =\
my parents got into an argument about two weeks ago? and they havent spoken to each other since ... so its always awkward when all three of us are together because no one really talks =\
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