KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 11:12 AM
Yeah soo..
Here's mah question
For all the fine azn girls out there
to many of ya'll to name...
anywayz
but on the realz
Would you date a black guy?
(im black..and i love azn girls)
dont kno if its a good thing or bad
this is a serious question too
cuz i dont see alot of mxed race relation ship between
blackz and azns
maibe the guys are chicken****
iono
but...
i need a ladies advice for dis one

thank you
Shyguy29
Mar 2 2008, 11:17 AM
Maybe if you was a light-skinned cutie like Chris Brown --- no homo.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 11:26 AM
If your a guy...
dude
nasty
just weird
charzzy
Mar 2 2008, 11:28 AM
^ yea.. maybe light skinned like chris brown.. (and as rich as him hahaha jk)
ok on the serious side, im ok with blacks..... but i cant quite picture myself holding hands with a black lol.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 11:31 AM
HAHAHAHA
koo koo
i guess
to.angie
Mar 2 2008, 11:41 AM
It's all about personality for me. Haha, I fell for my gay best friend before...too bad he liked guys too. But anyway, my mother said she'd disown me if ever I married a black guy or hispanic guy

If I love the guy, I'm willing to get disowned, lol.
Javus
Mar 2 2008, 11:45 AM
I find that there are alot of things that unfortunately for you, go against dating black guys. I find that no matter what asian country they're from, asian parents always seem to discourage dating outside the race, especially with black people. It's also only normal that girls would tend to date someone that they can relate to and are similar to. But don't give up hope, I've seen quite a few black/asian couples.
I'm a dude btw, just inputing what've I've seen.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 11:52 AM
Yeah
last to comments i totally understand
since most of mah friends are azn
i kno wat yu saying
i met most of mah friends parents
the all tell me that they like me
cuz i aint no gangsta
im really azn
as ppl tell me

so i understand where yu guys coming from
its like azn parents only see whats on the media
and stereotypes and such
so yeah.
iJAYEE`
Mar 2 2008, 12:04 PM
Mm, don't just say that parents only see what's on the media, stereotypes, etc. Although that might be very true, a big part of parents only wanting their children to date inside their own race is because at least there are familiarities with customs & culture. And uh, I liked a Black guy before. (: We were great together. But that went...
'haywire'. So I guess I would date a Black guy, but sad to say... we might not last. I would always choose my family over my s/o. So yeah.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 12:13 PM
oh
koo koo
i also forgot to put custom and traditions and stuff
and i know i aint ugly
im daym good looking

x]
(i guess)
0ompalo0mpa
Mar 2 2008, 12:16 PM
My mum would so disown me and beat me and then bring me back to life and then beat me again,
if I did go out with a black guy.
But that's her I guess,
the thought never occured to me,
because most of the black guys I've ever seen or known of were "Gangster" types,
I've just never thought of them dudes as anything more but friends,
although there was one black friend I had, he was so COOL! haha
he could draw really good manga, and he took an interest in asian culture, so sweet too.
But I didn't think of him of anything more than a friend, maybe a best friend! ;D
but eventually he got sucked into that "Gangster" role too.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 12:21 PM
^sounds like me
except
i aint a gangsta
vStyLe
Mar 2 2008, 12:24 PM
at my skool i see black guys and asian girls all the time BUT, u can only get with asian girls if their the ghetto types you kno what i mean
look, i can tell you something, most of the asian parents dont want their daughters to get with a black guy, there's alot of questions and answers behind it and the fact that the parents seeing a guy wear his pants below his waist, they will dissaprove, but it dont have much to do with clothing unless your jus dating without their parents knowing. for some reason, i think asian girls jus see black dudes as friends, not for dating. maybe it's because they have alot of history about them and you know.. stuff like that. but uhm yea, if you can find a ghetto asian girl then go for it, alot of times it will work out
bonbons
Mar 2 2008, 12:25 PM
there are actually a lot of mixed couples of black & asians o.o;; lol
but i guess it's mostly celebs?
or some celebrities parent's (ie amerie, crystal kay etc)
but to your question: yea I'd date a black guy, I don't judge by race~ plus my mom dated a black doctor and it was fine till he had commitment issues ahaha
jvchou1316
Mar 2 2008, 12:26 PM
i would date pharrell.

D
;;
i think i like the male species in general. hahaa
x0_saturn_0x
Mar 2 2008, 12:27 PM
I honestly can't see myself falling for a black guy since the guys that always fall for are azn.
I think I relate better to someone who is of similar culture and background anyways. =]
And so far, the black guys I've seen are really hardcore gangster... and not my really my type to begin with ^ ^;
I have nothing against black people, but I think I'd still go for an asian boy lol
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 12:27 PM
dats koo
I wanna be a doctor too
hangbok_2007
Mar 2 2008, 12:34 PM
Don't worry man, I know at least like 2 couples where the guy's black and the woman's Asian.
I know some who dated black people before (I dislike using the word black because um well, the skin tone is usually dark brown-light brown like my classmate).
I guess its all about how the people accepts you. I love any kind of people, I think I do love the male species tooxD
I said to my mom, "I'll date a black guy if hes amazing!" and her response was "...No, you won't go well with Black people, their cultural differences and attitude is different than yours."
I guess its true but I adore my coach who's black<3 hes so awsome haha.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 12:37 PM
-cough-
wow my race..is...WOW
lol
nohting to say
One day imma show the world that
all black ppl arent the same
stereotypical
and stuff
being gangsta and all dat crap
-Kira-
Mar 2 2008, 12:38 PM
dont worry kevnish, you'll get your fair share of the azn girls lol, i have seen japanese girls marrying a black guy before.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 12:47 PM
hahaha
Ight
koo koo
Cuz i live in a like
all azn community
so ya
jjocelynnnn
Mar 2 2008, 12:49 PM
I never thought of dating a black guy but I wouldn't object to dating a guy if he was black as long as we loved eachother

Hope that answers your question.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 12:58 PM
Hahahah
it does...
sorta
I guess your parents havent met the most unique black guy ever created
meh

all mah azn friends parents luv meh
x f l y `
Mar 2 2008, 01:07 PM
dont worry doode, i'd date a black guy.
it's all about the personality. don't try to hard
& be yourself. it's the easiest way to win any girl over.
& to be honest i know plenty of people that are half asian & half black.
wexbelongxtogether
Mar 2 2008, 01:08 PM
Ive dated a black guy. I dont see nothing wrong w/ it
My grandma lives w/ a black adjussi (mister) They can't get married though cuz my uncle doesn't know about them being together.
My aunt though is engaged to a black guy and has 3 mixed kids.
But... My dad would want me to marry a Korean man.
We'll see Ill marry whoever i love lol
lackluster
Mar 2 2008, 01:14 PM
hey i'm a guy
if i had a daughter i wouldn't want her to date you in particular lol
i wouldn't want a person dating my daughter who spells racist.. racisist (white,black or asian.. etc)
but yeah..black people who are intellectual are rather cool ( and i don't mean straight A's.. like have some common sense)
i live in the projects
there is a lot of black people here.. and only a few black people who are really cool and my friends.
like my friend tim.. he's full black.. but he's dating a viet girl.
i don't mind at all cuz i can see he treats her with love and respect
but honestly.. most black people here piss me off as hell..
some even try to mug me .. and act like animals.
and my friend dated a black guy ( she was asian)
he was cheating on her.. and he thought it was okay. like what he was doing was legit and stuff?
but in the end .. it depends who YOU are.. and HOW you act dude.. don't worry you can get some asians
my mom dated an indian guy? not about the color man.. about the person
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 01:37 PM
lol
thats true

thxz for da support
becky
Mar 2 2008, 01:59 PM
One of my friends REALLY liked a black guy over the summer and she's Korean.
One of the reasons she liked him was because he was the first black guy she had really gotten to know (because where she lives there aren't that many) and he was intelligent and funny. But then he like screwed up big time, so it didn't work out. =/
AsianL0ve
Mar 2 2008, 02:11 PM
im asian
and I have dated 2 black guys.
Maybe because im a ghetto asian who grew up in the ghetto's
but a lot of grls who are asian date blacks.
but then agen thats because my school is half black half asians
we're a very racial diverse school
happyboy
Mar 2 2008, 02:13 PM
QUOTE (-JAYee_o4 @ Mar 2 2008, 01:04 PM)

Mm, don't just say that parents only see what's on the media, stereotypes, etc. Although that might be very true, a big part of parents only wanting their children to date inside their own race is because at least there are familiarities with customs & culture. And uh, I liked a Black guy before. (: We were great together. But that went...
'haywire'. So I guess I would date a Black guy, but sad to say... we might not last. I would always choose my family over my s/o. So yeah.
that's not the only reason. parents think rationally when it comes to relationships and the truth is that in America in 2008, black men are more likely to be less educated, more likely to earn less for the same work, more likely to have other children out of wedlock,
much more likely to be jailed, have a shorter life expectancy and be a worse provider than other races.
those are the realities of being black in America, which sucks. asian people didn't create those conditions, but it's not like parents can ignore realities when it comes to the longterm well being of their daughters
I think it's a two sided coin. a lot of parents are racist and refuse to see the good parts of dating a black dude (not to be crude but you know...) and a lot of daughters are equally blind and pretend that there are no difficulties and realities to the negative of being with a black guy.
but in the end if 2 people truly find each other then they're lucky regardless of race.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 02:26 PM
@lackluster:
I know for a fact i got common sense
People say im one the smartest black guys they know
THe azn girls i know tell me im sweet and really nice
thats cuz i am
i treat em wid da utmost respect
they deserve nothing less
@happyboy:
I know, we under paided and stuff
but yo..
on the realz
i feel where ya coming from
@wexbelongxtogether:
hahaha
thats kewl
mah aunt married a chinese guy
3 mixed babies
chocopocky
Mar 2 2008, 02:48 PM
If you know how to charm a girl, it really doesn't matter what skin color you are.
As long as you don't act like you're big stuff, you should be fine. Talking won't get you everything.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 02:53 PM
I guess thats true to some extent
Jamila
Mar 2 2008, 04:06 PM
QUOTE (KevNish @ Mar 2 2008, 01:37 PM)

-cough-
wow my race..is...WOW
lol
nohting to say
One day imma show the world that
all black ppl arent the same
stereotypical
and stuff
being gangsta and all dat crap
yes, and how hard that would be..

I'm actually with an african american guy that's into asian stuff..and I thought that would be hard to find..especially living here..and he's no 'gangster'..I wouldn't stand for that either..
sure it's not fair how they think all black guys are "gangster" but being of darker skin tones has put us at a disadvantage...
anyway..to answer the question I think it depends on the person..I know an asian girl that loves black guys
but I also have friend from Thailand that would never think of doing it...
sucks...I know..
v_23
Mar 2 2008, 04:13 PM
um can't picture myself dating a black dude. unless you dress nice and small lips. i'm not into big lips on guys.
theodabear
Mar 2 2008, 04:15 PM
i have a friend that loveessss black guys and shes asian so i think ull get some and besides there are millions of asian girls so they have to like black guys too xD good luck xD
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 04:17 PM
LOL
people think i dress
nice

@jamilia
Ya im a black into azn things and stuff
i aint a gangsta
and i aint no thug
sea.jk
Mar 2 2008, 04:24 PM
i know about 2 couples right now that are between a black man and an asian girl, and their relationship seem to be going very well for them

but as for me, i've never really been attracted to a black guy. dont know why

i'm not racist or anything, but i think its really a cultural thing thats going on.
it just depends on the girl i suppose.
and i also know of several asian girls who wont date any other race other than black guys
a d d i c t i o n
Mar 2 2008, 04:26 PM
i wouldnt care what my parents say. (: if the guy's faithful & dont
spit a whole bunch of lies, hell, sure, why not? race isnt a barrier
for me.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 04:38 PM
Hahhaha
this is really helpful
you have no idea
thankz you guys
Pandapple
Mar 2 2008, 04:52 PM
I'll be honest here, I don't see myself dating a black guy but that apply to any non-asian race. I think relationship would be easier for me if we're the same race because it's much easier for me and stuff but i have no problem if someone i know dated a black guy.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 04:57 PM
I guess dats understandable
Romancer.
Mar 2 2008, 05:16 PM
I would. As long as we have the same interests etc.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 05:18 PM
ight
thats koo
and understandable
simplicity90
Mar 2 2008, 05:25 PM
QUOTE (chocopocky @ Mar 2 2008, 02:48 PM)

If you know how to charm a girl, it really doesn't matter what skin color you are.
agreed.
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 05:28 PM
Sometimes that don't work
If i haven't stated that already
BluBeryVo
Mar 2 2008, 05:34 PM
My auntie married a black guy (:
He's awesome! XD Im totally fine with it.
But I dont think my parents are. >>
But hey, you'll find someone special out
there!
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 05:36 PM
lol
mah auntie married a chinese guy

we all koo' wid it
hae mee
Mar 2 2008, 05:38 PM
Yeah, I could see myself dating a black guy. There's nothing wrong with them, but that would not go well with my family

I actually almost dated a black guy when I was in high school. My friend was telling me that he liked me and we hung out and stuff and he would tell me that he liked me, but never asked me out so we never officially dated.
Oh and I am a 100% Korean girl
KevNish
Mar 2 2008, 05:41 PM
HAhahah
i love korean girls
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