my dating hx has been mostly white guys with one or two hispanic guys in the mix. With every other race I'm a normal person. But with asian guys I clam up, I don't know what to say I don't know how to act, I'm completely awkward. I'm asian but in real life I only have like one other asian friend and he's a third generation. I've always been this way though ever since I was old enough to like boys. I always get intimidated because I see pretty petite and dainty little asian girls that are just gorgeous and then the asian guys around them that just seem smitten by them. No asian guys ever shown ANY interest in me which makes me think perhaps there's some standard i'm not hitting. Needless to say all this makes me incredibly insecure around asian guys, i always have these thoughts like maybe i'm so awkward around them because i think i'll never know what to say, or that i'm incredibly boring, not attractive enough, etc etc compared to all the pretty other asian girls. These feelings are exacerbated times ten when i'm in areas with lots of asian ppl like clubs with beatiful and skantily clad asian girls (hopefully you all know what i'm referring to). And when i'm with the asian girls I feel out of place like i don't fit their mold. The weird thing is I NEVER feel like this with guys of other races. Is it just me or do asian guys gravitate towards these typical small, petite girls? Is this a typical mold for most asian guys to compare other girls with? I don't know if any of this makes sense, hopefully you know what I'm trying to say...

There is a PINNED Love & Relationships thread in this forum. Please USE IT. I don't want to have to keep merging your L&R threads with the pinned threads.