I was on the bus the other day when it was packed because of rush hour.
Listening to my ipod and whatever just zoning out from reality when all of a sudden this girl touched my shoulder
I was freaked out and didn't know what to do.
Here I am just out of a relationship and I have random girls touching me

She was really cute but I was just so shocked at her forwardness.
I moved to the front of the bus cause I literally had the jeepers creepers.

Do you find it creepy if someone just randomly starts touching you?

You ever thought that she might be asking you a question afterwards?

so true. .

it all depends the kind of *touch*...u know wat i meant by...
anyway....stranger touching me...it's creepy...
but even i general i don't like ppl touching me.....its annoying...

Depends why and how they are touching me. If they are touching my shoulders, perhaps they want to tell me or ask me something. If they were like... i unno... rubbing my shoulders or something, that would be pretty freaky.

*taps shoulder*

"OMG WTH DO YOU WANT!!! I HAVE MACE!!"
"um I dropped my phone can you..."
"AHHHH" *runs to the front of the bus*

lol don't overreact, be friendly!

I was in a group of friends and there is this guy I really don't know very well.. just his name.. not very close to him or anything and we were just standing around and I had like a strand in front of my face.. and he pushed it back out of my face for me.. it's really creepy..

not only that I've had random people come up to me and be like "omg i like your hair.." ..

As for your situation .. she was probably trying to ask a question or touched you by accident..

Haha, I'm one of those people also. I hate when people touch me. HATE. I don't even like it when girls touch me. Keep your hands to yourself.

Then! There's always those girls that just LOVE to take their hands to my head and tottttalllllly mess up my hair like rrawwwwr!!!! I mean! Seriously! We're 21+! That feels so... high school. Then I have flakes the rest of the day.

i live in nyc so i get bumped into a lot. or i am often in close proximity with strangers.
but i don't like them touching me.
when people touch me, i feel like they are trying to steal my ipod or something.

depends how they are touching you.
and since you said it was a crowded buss maybe it was by accident? or she had a question, but was too shy to ask because you freaked out.

i'm not a very touchy feely "let's hug" type of person, so i wouldn't really like contact

I get chills. Then I get VIOLENT.
I'm freakishly ticklish and my natural instinct is to harm whomever's causing it.

it's just a slight touch without a motive, then nothing to get all upset about, it's not like she's sexually harassing you

i think you need to take a chill pill. it seems she just wants to ask you a question. when i want to ask strangers questions i touch their shoulder too

I get touched very often by guys at work...like accidently though...
cause there's just no dang space. we literally crash into each other...=.= but that's something unavoidable.

when it's a suggestive touch i get creepy chills and i feel like slapping the guy until he can't see.
in real life what i really do is 'STOP IT!!!!' thats what i say. yes it is creepy to the extreme if they're being suggestive like slapping ur butt or something. man ...guys are perverted creatures. i often feel like filing for harassment charges.

This guy was touching my face on the bus. I was so freaked out, I just pretended he wasn't there...
Now I wish that I had threatened to scream 'rape' if he touched me again... or even punched him in the face. KAJglskjasfjals.
Wasn't a young guy either, wasn't good looking either. He was old enough to be my freaking father. =_______=;;
Uuuugh. Hell yes it's creepy.

If they try to touch my face or somewhere strange, then yeaaaah, that's creepy.
I don't like how people I don't know well or I don't like period just touch me randomly.
It's like GET OFFFFFF. Thanks.

But I think you overreacted in your case. She just touched your shoulder. I tap people, too, to ask questions or say hi.

what if it was just an accident? if she was sitting next to you and she put her hand on your knee or thigh then you might have a problem!

i dont know. i thought guys would find it flattering. i'm a girl, and i always freak out when that happens. cuz theres this guy in school, he always like tries to pull me towards him through my backpack O_o

If she did that w/out saying anything, that's a little weird. But in most cases they're probably just trying to get your attention or something. I wouldn't freak out or anything.

LOL! I thought you ment in school, when guys hold your waist or hug you to be friendly, it feels sort of akward.

he obviously didn't

I think you were stepping on her toe or your backpack was crushing her. aww poor innocent girl gets accused.

This has never happen before...but since I became a freshman in High School this year, guys from different grade come and talk to me randomly and touch me on the face. I was like: "Fcuk off!" and they go and yell back: "What are you going to do? Touch me back?" Stupid people.

i really don't like being touched

even sometimes by people i know.. i just end up feeling really uncomfortable and awkward

me too
i like my personal space, i don't even let my friends touch me

YEAH! i think it's so creepy if someone randomly touches me. haha i actually squeak and run away o.o

HAHAHAHHAHAHA LOL,
that's odd. and weird, maybe she was asking you a question like they said 0___0.
But if a stranger did that to me, yes, I would freak out and run away.

it's creepy if they're just doing it randomly
once when i was walking in the hall some random guy grabbed my elbow T_T
and like.. it makes sense if the hallway was like full and he had to brush past me to get past..
but the hallway was empty =_=
he didn't have to go that close to me LOL

well, yeah! of cos.. i b freaked out! if anyone touches me! like this guy in my class, he wanted to give me a hug.. n he told me.. 'whats wrong' .. 'give me a hug' ... so i just put my arms and pat his back..

ermm, hes a touchy person! but hes friendly .. not like touchy touchy! ..

but still dont like being touched! ..

Yes and no. o_O
I always hug people I don't know well. >_< Then people I don't know well hug me. o__O *shrugs* I'm a huggy person.
I suppose it really does how they touch you though. o_O Or how long. o__O
Hmm. It's kind of weird when some random starts talking to you though.
That happened to me at the shops. This random old guy started talking to me and I was like okay...o_O
Then my cousin came to get me and he was angry "Don't talk to strangers!"...

Well yeah, but not if it's a tap on the shoulder. That means they want to ask you something usually.
If it was random feeling up then yes, that's weird.

depends where they are touching me. if it's accidentally, i shrug it off. but if it's like, boob or butt or something, i'm like O_O.

maybe she was askign oyur a question or somethign.

LOL for me if guys touch me f*ck i hate it. even if its a tap

i elbowed my cousin coz of that

Depends what type of touch. If it was an accident or they were about tell me something then it's ok, but if it's an appropiate touch then no.

yes, i do. i have my personal bubble that extends approximately 5 feet in all directions around me. Don't get in my bubble or i will feel weirded out.

Peace!

A 'brush' is ok I guess, if it happens occasionally. Those are 99% accidental occurrences.
A 'touch' would be different. Hasn't happened before. o_o
I would be freaked for a sec. but if it happened, it better be for a good reason, like I dropped my bus card or something. ><

Yeah. It's kind of creepy. Like when I'm on the stairs or if a boy's trying to push past me, they sometimes wrap their arm around my waist to gently move me out of the way? Reallllllly weird.
But understandable, I guess...

But um o_o maybe the girl on the bus was just trying to ask you something?

depends on how the person touches me...if its a tap on the shoulder or arm no...but if someone grabs my arm, then of course it'd be SUPER strange and creepy and scary...
maybe she was asking something, paranoid much??LOL

she was probably wanting to tell you to move cause she wanted to get off the bus .__.
but u were too into ur music

Other than being tapped lightly to inform or ask me something, or bumped into, I've never been touched by strangers.

Might have to do with my ogre face, but I'm not complaining rofl

if its' a tap on the shoulder it's pretty normal. but then again, it does depend on teh touch. like you can really creep someone out by touching them slowly in a certain way lol like when my friends try to freak me out.

LOL! That was so funny : PP

hahaha wooord.

yeah, i have major issues with random people touching me. like, butt/waist/legs touching.
if it's my shoulder..meh. as long as it's not a creeper.

it's creepy.
some guy i talked to twice gave me a hug.
We were walking and talking, then he just turned me faced him and hug me.
i felt weird. ha ha. I didn't know what to say. so i told him i had to go to class. ha ha.

yeah this man at the buffet like grabbed my arm and told me to try the carrot cake, but i thought he was molesting me or something..so i shook his hand off rudely... but w/e i hate it when people grab my arm.

Yes
touching ....strangers... = creepiness
lol

Ugh I hate this. It's so annoying in school. I hate walking down the stairs going to the bathroom or something and some creepy guys grab my hand or arm and pull me towards them. That just really creeps me out. I dont want you touching me buddy I dont know you.

i don't mind if its like a tap on the shoulder
unless its unappropriate places

you sound a bit paronoia.

LOl.

alot of people massaging my back, so i kinda got used to the touching but it kinda gives me the jibbers.
both guys and girls do it...
i think alot of people think my backs attractive or something..
but yeah today, i was sitting in my desk and this girl was making circles on my back, and she asked me if it felt 'good'..

i was just like...uhm, i dont even know you that well and your freaking touching my back..
but i just said yes to be nice..
and then she kept tickling me down my stomach area..
and i had the biggest spazz....

i only like touching from people that are special to me..): and same for hugs..
sigh those darn huggie people..