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the.user
I find it kind of awkward when I'm eating in a group and then when you're the first to finish, you sit around watching everyone else to finish, just waiting around.
Or even when you're the last to finish, everyone is watching you eat, waiting for you to finish.

Does anyone else feel like this, or is it just me?
awdark
Yeah it is! Thats when you drink water, poke at the garnish.. eat the garnish.. and find lots of other stuff to do... lol
jaefan
yup.

i can tolerate being the first.but not the last.thats soooo awkward~

Millou
when i'm with my friends i'm mostly the last one to finish, i don't find it really awkward. It's not that i'm eating slow, but i have a lot to talk about.
When i'm at home i'm mostly the first one to finish...
NotFromThisPlanet
i am almost always the first person to have eaten most of my food. i like to eat my food piping hot and its just not as good if it gets cold and gross. i never feel awkward though.
Myss Blewm
Most times I'm the last to finish. I'm a slow eater and I talk a lot. One of my friends talks a lot but he always manages to gobble up all his food quite quick. I don't find finishing the food first/last awkward or strange. Most times we're too busy talking to really notice or care that someone has finished before or after us.
Big_Bang
hahaha yes ! I'm almost always the last one to finish eating
and it's so awkward because like you said, they just watch you eat...

and I'm like trying to hurry up biggrin.gif
Antz
lmfao, i'm ALWAYS last to finish. i'm known as the slow eater. haha.
i am alice
haha yeah, i always finish last when
im eating with my friend and her family
its so awkward cus everyone just waits for me.
>___<
twist&fall-
yeap! (:
heh, i'm always the first to finish so i think it's not awkward
but sometimes, when i'm last and yeah it gets awkward. i'd be like
" you're making me nervous! "
vip_gd
nahh .. I always finish last .. I take my time to 'digest' my food unlike my friends who eat like pigs rofl
xskyi
I'm almost the last one always...
I'm kind of slow sometimes or it's just my friends that doesn't eat that much either.

angielyn;s2
its so awkward when im the last one eating~
i feel sooooo ... idnooo :|
rufflezz
I take.. my time, but I still manage to finish first T__T!
So I just talk .. randomly
angelic_diablo
The first is fine but the last is weird. I feel like everyone is watching me eat and that's just uncomfortable. I always try to finish before the last person.
xljh=)
I eat at an average speeed. xD! Aha. So I guess i've never experienced that akward-ness.
ihigh
for some reason, i eat fast at home...but i eat really slow when i go to restaurants. sleep.gif;;
so i dont feel awkward cuz while im eating we're all talking XD
ahhna
ive nevered finished eating last or first
so i wouldnt know. but when i do finish
i make smiley faces on my plate 8D
loveex3
LOL. that is awkward.
but i've never been first.
i'm a pretty slow eater,
and there was a time when i was the last one,
it was pretty awkward.. phew.gif
ladee_bug
I used to being the one who finishes last.
I can't eat fast unless I choke lol
I think it's partly because of my braces though =/

anyways, *sigh* at school EVERYONE waits for me
thislove
I'm like tat so I'll pretend to be full and not eat until everyone caught up then finish. Or I'll sit there and sip my drink for the longest time
inej
it's extremely awkward!! oh my gosh.. lol. i remember one time my friends and i were just kickin it at lollicup and they decided to go eat pho, and so my friend cindy and i just sat there watching the rest of them eat since we didnt have anymore money XD and like when they finished eating, there was still one person eating and she ate kinda slow. and they were like did you even eat any!? and she felt really bad and tried eating faster cause everyone was like looking at her. i felt so badd for her and i was just like stop being so mean damn, i eat slow too haha. most of the time i just try to finish after like 2 or 3 people are done, depending on how large the group is XD
cbxjenn
i usually finish first [if its individual meals] because im a fast eater haha. when we do family style or whatever and i know NOONE wants to take home the leftovers.. i tend to finish everything and be the last one to finish eating because i hate wasting food :[ im like their mommy/trashcan.
hellotiffy
i always finish last! it's especially awkward when i'm eating dinner at my friends' house with their family. they always leave me alone with their family because they finish first. -___-"
pepprmint
i never finish last, never ever, im always either the first or one of the first to finish...
but since i always finish first, i spend the rest of the time picking at little bits of food here, little bits there, i might even get more ^^
iHeartYunHo
At home I'm always the one to finish last.
But when we go out to eat, depends. Sometimes I finish a bit earlier than others and sometimes I finish last.
Haha I never found it awkward, I'm used to it XDD
b1gb4ng1rl
Haha, funny topic.

I'm the first to finish usually.
I start doing something else like listen to music with one ear or do some reading.
x.yoru
i don't mind being first, because then I just talk or drink. Or just take pictures/go to the bathroom/wander sometimes. XD;

But when I'm the last... I HATE IT, because by then everyone else is watching and waiting for you so you can go, and I really hate having people watch me eat. XP It's just wierd. XDD
x0_saturn_0x
Depends on what I'm eating and how hungry I am
Usually I finish somewhere in the middle xD
x_asianaddict
Teehee smile.gif no not only you . &gyeah depends on what yor eating .
if t had a big delightful dish that would fill me up , it would take me forever to finish
buttah if i finish first i pretend like i'm still eating . what a fool i am ?!
foreverxlove
Haha im a slow eater, so always LAST... -___-
i dun find it awkward in da family
but a bit in public round ma friends, cuz dey finish ahead n leave n have fun while im still eating >.<
woei
i am always the last...i am a slow eater...i just love enjoying my food...hehe
sentuhmentalfo0l
depends on how hungry i am and how much i want to talk haha
Mandu
I'm a pretty vicious eater so I'm usually the one to finish first. It's not all that awkward since we talk a lot.
alainachen_604
LOL whats good is I always finish in between the first person & last xDD rolleyes.gif
iPhets
lol.. im always first and i hate waiting for other people =.=
if its in a restaurant i go "take a walk", come back and they're still eating..
go out to buy some icecream, coming back and they're still eating aswell..
but most of the time i just stay there and poke the vegies i didnt eat LOL.

but it depends on what im eating =]
if its not so tasty i just eat it as fast as i can
and if its realllly delicious i slow down and enjoy it.. but still finish early..
so i dunno =.=
RainySeasons
I'm always the last to finish eating.
Yeah, it's really awkward when everyone stares at you.
LunaDiviner
Depends who I'm with. If I'm with a bunch of guys sometimes I just try beat them for fun. We usually chat while we eat, so it's not so bad.
BlueBear54
It depends how I feel, if im super hungry i'll be like one the first ones done, usually im in the middle or I lag behind cause people talk too much
FallingWaters
Feels really awkward to finish first and be seen as "the glutton".
So yeah last.
Superjuniorislovex3
Haha usually in lunch i'm either last or not last. The reason why i eat slow is that I get hiccups if i eat too fast sad.gif and its a pity since I've always wanted to just stuff everything in my mouth since I eat A LOT of food if i like it. Once my parents bought me and my sister korean, japanese style sushi. i stuffed one in my mouth and chewed like only once or twice and swallowed and i was like biggrin.gif i can eat fast!!! then i hiccup sleep.gif;

agreed to some people above. i like enjoying my food xD and it is awkward but now at lunch we stay in the cafeteria talking so i can eat as long as i want biggrin.gif
latina
i always finish eating first.
i dunno why.
when i'm eating with my friends, they talk a lot.
me, i just listen while chowing down my food
that's why i always finish first.
nestachan
i'm always first.lol.
HK speed eating habit.haha.
Carmen.
I hate being the first OR the last.
When I'm the first to finish, it seems like I'm a pig or something.

And when I'm last, it's weird since everyone is sitting around waiting for me awkwardly.

Haha the other day my friend and I went out for sushi and I spent forever trying to eat it (because I didn't want to look piggish haha) and she's like "Carmen! What's taking you so long?!"
fallenbroke




Lol ! I eat fast enough , but never first . sweatingbullets.gif But yeah . If you're last everyone around you will start chasing you . "Hurry up !" Lol !
Kikyo
Idk why but I like to finish my food fast. Seems gross to me if it sits for a long time and gets cold or whatever.
Most of the time I don't feel awkward, but I guess it just depends who I'm with. If it's with friends then I don't feel awkward at all but if it's with just acquaintances then yeah I feel pretty awkward cuz then I don't know what to do. Usually I try to eat slower and make it seem like I'm still eating or constantly drink water and eat some ice...
& JEWELRY ;
I order last...(takes me a good 10 min or more =D)
My food tends to comes first...
But I never finish all my food ^^;
So.. that doesn't really answer the question.

At home, I either finish first (since I help cook and set the table) due to hunger,
or start eating when everyone has finished (due to a nap or focus on homework)
tangerine_kisses
I'm always the last.
But it's not that bad since one of my friends eats slow too.
So there's two of us.

She always finishes before me since she doesn't finish up all her food.
So basically, I should have finished earlier =_="
aesthete
I finish first when I'm eating american food, but when I'm eating korean food I really slow down.
x`aNNiie.
I finnish first, then eat my friends. tongue.gif.
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