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xsarangxmex
I'm korean/19 yrs old and I like this guy that's 25 whos asian too but not korean, that goes to the university i go to...
We are in similar majors and hes like realllllll cute


At first I didnt know he was 25 cuz he looks kinda youngg
He's also really nice and friendly and doesn't really act his age (like he acts younger)
he also seems like he isn't perverted(?) or anything

I think he likes me too and I like him but if he ever asks me out, i don't know whether i should say yes or no.
i really like him and would actually wanna go out w/ him but i wanna know what u guys think???


THANKS for ur advice
addickshun
he's 25 years old and he's still immature?! o__o"
mocheee
I think if both people are over 18, thats when age really doesn't matter. If he's easy to be around (i assume thats what you mean by 'acts younger') then by all means go for it. Age is just a number. smile.gif
영원한 사랑
I personally think its okay.
I mean you're 19 and he's only 6 years older than you.
If he's perverted then maybe you should stay away but otherwise GO FOR IT smile.gif


aishiteruhoney
I think it's okay..
I have a friend who's 18 and her boyfriend is 23 - 24~
so it's not like you're the only one..
nj.s.k
you're 19!! go for it!! the law isnt against you...
itrayya
QUOTE (addickshun @ Mar 22 2008, 11:47 PM) *
he's 25 years old and he's still immature?! o__o"


^ ahahahhaa.
that's what i thought too.

but i think xsarangxmex meant that he's older,
but that he still has a young side to him, right? tongue.gif

i think if you like him, and he likes you,
go for it. there's nothing wrong if you two like each other.
that really matters the most.
the connection and the respect.

GOOD LUCK.
take care.
xoskwxo
WOO !!

only 6 years apart ! i noe ppl who are 15 !!!

and dw abt immature stuff !! i got a friend whos imature at the age of 33 .. -.-;

but GO FOR IT !! good luck !! smile.gif
MoiraElla
maybe one date is fine, I mean you're legal now. So I don't see whyy not right? And you only seem to like him cause of his looks, just go on one date and if you also like his personality, then save with him! haha
kdoliser
i dont think the age difference is that wide.. so i dont see why not smile.gif
Antz
i guess that age difference is okay to me.
anything under 18 is pretty bad to me.
FallingWaters
It's really no big deal,age is just a number afterall.
As long as you know what your doing and you truly like him then go ahead,Go for it!
Anyway i've also have this cousin who is 18 this year and she just married a 27 year old guy!! w00t.gif
PurpleRain
Only six years apart..i see no problem.Well,just as advice ..don't go out alone with him before you get to know him better ^^ Say 'yes' to group date.lol
skicheri
age isn't a difference..
it's how you two feel about each other..
that what it really matters =)
twist&fall-
I don't think there's any problem with that =D
as long as he's not those perverted kind who is, you know
and you both have feelings for each other,
then really, why not? just go for it ^^
Senorita_
Age is only numbers.
What really matters is how you two feel about each other.
If you like him and he likes you, then go for it!
Ivy202
I don't see anything wrong with it. A 19 years old and 25 years old, is totally fine. Age are just numbers that don't really count in the inner world.
†-oh.double.kaYzz
QUOTE (Antz @ Mar 23 2008, 08:53 AM) *
i guess that age difference is okay to me.
anything under 18 is pretty bad to me.


thats what i was gonna say
but yeah your too right =)
junsujunsu
dude, it's only a 6years difference...i mean if you were 15 dating a 21 year old (still 6 years) that'll be nasty but, once you pass 18 no one really cares. lol....like heechul said, "me and sohee are ONLY 9 years apart." (that perv) hehheehe good luck! and i think IT IS FINE
hippiehop
My friend dated a guy who was 24 when she 19... and I think it was just the guy who was extremely bad for her... and let's say that if you are a virgin, you need to be prepared that he might not be. Sometimes you really can't tell. My friend, everyone thinks he is a virgin but he isn't. And I thought my boyfriend wasn't... but he was. Haha~ But if he respects you, that shouldn't matter. Some guys (like my friend's ex) really were in it just for the sex.
ihigh
i mean, thats only six years...you see alot of adult parents the age difference is like 5-6 also biggrin.gif
so why not? and ur both over 18. and who wants a stay-at-home old geezard tongue.gif
sweets201
I don't see anything wrong with it. Age is nothing but a number.
hammy_chan
its okayy...u guys are both legal...=]...depends on u tho...
didi-anime
shouldn't matter to much. smile.gif
Hikuuu
I think the guy totally scored and that I will pray for his dong.
aznxmushu
i say goo for it,
age is numbers and numbers is nothing in love, except aniverssery.
like if you were a grade 8er going out with a 12er that is UGH just cause your really young and yea but since your old and mature i say go for it
^ _ ^Y goood luck

--amyyann.D
Haengb0kk
heyyy lol you're not underage soo....
jliu6190
6 years difference isn't too bad. i know people who are 10 years apart..
j'adoreAZNpop
why dont you give it a try?
afterall you are legal age
영원한 사랑
QUOTE (aznxmushu @ Mar 23 2008, 07:44 PM) *
i say goo for it,
age is numbers and numbers is nothing in love, except aniverssery.
like if you were a grade 8er going out with a 12er that is UGH just cause your really young and yea but since your old and mature i say go for it
^ _ ^Y goood luck

--amyyann.D

19 isn't old or mature.
iono, i think it depends on how mature the 25 yr old is.
if his maturity isn't too far from urs, its totally okay.
6 years isn't that much but maybe maturity could get into the way.
So you'll have to decide for yourself
suwan
I'm 18 and he's 22....^w^ ~~ I think that as long as you guys can communicate and understand each other, age doesn't matter at all. AFter all, like everyone else, love is not a number =). I've always shown interested in older guys hehe, maybe because they seem to be a little more mature than those of my age ? hehe ~~ so i say go for it !! You have nothing to lose as long as you know what you're doing ! <33
Dulce de Leche
Well why the heck not? As long as you're not 18- then I'd be a little hesitant and careful about that.
forgottenmemories
Eh, only 6 years apart. It'll be ok.
nowayin
hah i think it`s fine smile.gif and go for it!
Tranberry
My friend who is 19 is dating a 24 year old...actually she was still 18 when they started going out. So I think it's okay as long as you are compatible. smile.gif
Chooniex
Go for it. But don't expect him to not get distracted by other girls since he is at the height of his life especially if he is successful and good looking. And get to know him before you start anything... like make sure he's not in it just to bang you haha. But otherwise, yay! I like older guys myself haha
SweetnSour012
Like everyone else said, age is just a number. so i think it's fine. you should get to know him better though.

when i was 19, i dated someone who was 26 yrs old & he was already thinking of marriage & settling down..
so it didn't work out since that's not what i wanted.
koneee
age is nothing but a number.... unless you guys have different mentalities, ways of thinking, different views, and
what's up with people saying if youre over 18, then it's ok. obviously age is more than just a number right?

If you really want to know how it's going to work. just date and don't rush into things. Don't do things you know you will regret later in life. don't rush meaning date for a few YEARS before settling down, if there is any LOVE, your future CAN wait (marriage).
x. suki
lol that's like me & yoochun ;D
HAHA <3
it's not bad i guess =)
it could work~~
iloveRAiNBOWS
Age does not matter! smile.gif
If you think he's 'reaal cute' and he kinda acts younger than his age, but.. is still kinda alright with you, then go for it ! biggrin.gif
lli_a
yeah i dont think it really matters.
anything is possible these days
sixth.
that's not that bad of a difference.
as everyone has said, once you're over 18 its ok
lastdrop
you kno...i think its fine...just depending on how well the relationship will go...cuz my friend is only 15 and her bf is 22 but you kno everything is oks...
Juliang
You're legal now so go for it but make sure to still be careful. smile.gif
aymei
You're 19, I'm pretty sure you're mature enough to make a good decision.
Plus my bf is 5 yrs older than me :<
Maybe I'm being biased by heyy~~ I really like him ^^.
underneathHERskin
I think once you get out of highschool, age shouldn't matter anymore. So I say...

GO GET HIM HUN! Good luck =)
Maddie0407
I think that's okay. I mean, you're over 18 so it shouldn't be a problem, law-wise of course. He sounds like a great guy. I'd say you go for it. happy.gif I mean, he's only older than you by 6 years, that's not such a big problem. If it's like, 10 then yeah that's a problem. =]
resa_massu
LOL it's okay i am 21 and the guy i like is 26. age is just a number.
as long as you both like each other and have similar interest (8
just get to know him better, nothing wrong with going out for fun.
babii3xquiisit3
i think it's okay smile.gif
only 6 years, and you both are over 18, so
im sure both are responsible people, no matter the age difference
kawaii88
QUOTE (skicheri @ Mar 23 2008, 08:31 AM) *
age isn't a difference..
it's how you two feel about each other..
that what it really matters =)

YEH that is what i think too!! You didnt like him because of his age, but for who he is!!! Don't worry i like a guy whos is 24! or 25 i think!! Im 19 too! soo!! Just go for it!! if u have feelings for him then GO GO GO!! hehe! im high fiving to that! (^_-)V its not a bad thing anyway!!
Btw it sound like the guy i like as well! hes kinda immature but sooo cute!! he looks younger than hes suppose to be!!! i know how you feel woman! haha
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