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dancingbymyself
How comfortable are you with skinship.

Parents: Hugging

Friends: They can be all over me and I won't care. Pretty much anything but outright fondling (and even that if its funny) I love to spoon with my one friend George.

Someone I like: Pretty much anything ㅋㅋㅋ i'm a hoebag.
Antz
parents.. mm, i don't mind hugging them, hehe.
friends: anything
boyfriend: anything wink.gif
b1gb4ng1rl
Don't really mind. As long as I know the person and we're both comfortable with it, it's fine.

(I don't remember my last hug.. tears.gif) Aiish.. sweatingbullets.gif
sharleen
parents: hugging
friends: anything
people i like: anything once i'm comfortable.
x0_saturn_0x
I don't mind as long as I know the person and I'm on good terms with them XD
In other words, no random strangers or ppl I hate. XD
lol
orangebubbles
i hate being touched by everyone. so prude XD
but youngbae's a different story~

AH! i'm totally kidding. but i honestly dont know. i guess if i really liked the person, i'd just suck it up because i like them ^^;
weirdazn
Parents and family: Hugging is okay, but I don't like hugging my brother -___- He's icky and I don't really like him much XD
Normal Friends: Almost anything
Close Friends: Anything
xohprecious
Parents: Uh. I guess just when they kiss me on the top of the head in church when we exchange peace.
Friends: Anything really.
Boyfriend: Anything wink.gif
Pandapple
family:nothing, I don't hug my family member sweatingbullets.gif we hate each other
friends:hug
boyfriend:we'll see....
bluenette
Family: We're not touchy touchy people so the most we do is ruffle each other's hairs. I only got a hug from my parents when I was leaving on a trip out of the country. As for my sisters, we're sometimes on the voilent side when we are mad so we one-touch each other like Jaejoong and Changmin biggrin.gif

Friends: Hugs. I guess I'm not comfortable with anything other than hugs because of the way I was brought up and my family environment.

Best Friend: Hug. See above.

Boyfriend: Non-existant ATM sad.gif
JuicyLove x*
parents - hugging once in a while
friends - dont really care
boyfriend - anything..but not crossing the line ph34r.gif
hangbok_2007
Parents: Hmm I don't hug them or anything but i wouldn't mind. Hugging hands would be weird.

friends: hugging, holding hands.

boyfriend:...hmm depends on the level of intimacy. I only really like hugs and holding hands though.
iChangmin
Family: Hugging.
Friends: Hugging.
Crush/Boyfriend: Hugging, kissing, whatever.
koreangirl143
parents : anything
friends : anything. whatever floats the boat.
boyfriend: anything ph34r.gif
†-oh.double.kaYzz
Parents: hardly see them but when i do why not =)

Friends: yeah why not they need some luvin' as well

Girlfriend: touch me, tease me, grab my ass, lick me, ITS ALL KEWL
1S0ULL
Parents: Hugging. I don't hug my brothers, that's just weird. More like pushing each other.
Friends: Doesn't really matter.
BF: if i had one...anything as long is it doesn't cross the line.
angielyn;s2
parents : hugging
friends : anything
person i like : anything
j i w o n.
no skinship. kthanks.
lol
i hate ... slkflsdkfj ew hahaha
i mean my brother who's 8 yrs younger, id on't mind hugging him cause he's cute LOL
but eh.

and friends. i normally just link arms if i'm cold.
but some of my friends lke... to hold.. hands? x_x
.... lol

and person i like. i don't know. i'm really not a touchy person.
joogrlpekaun
I'm pretty much not ok with skinship ever. I hate hugging my parents and other relatives, I feel uncomfortable when friends try to hug me or even just touch me on the shoulder, and I ran into trouble dating guys because I wouldn't let them touch me and couldn't stop myself from getting really tense at even the slightest touch. The only touching I'm ok with, strangely enough, is like friendly punches to the arms or shoulders. It's....a bit of a problem for me sometimes that I hate being touched so much.
littleazncutie324
Parents: hugs?...none of them are really touchy...
Friends: HUGS, holding hands, kissing (some), they tend to grab my butt..but its all cool haha i don't do it to them tho...
Person I like: Idk.
Bf: mhm nothing to much that crosses the line
Mandu
Parents/Friends: Hugging
Boyfriend: -shrugs- who knows >______________>
angelic_diablo
I don't mind anything as long as I'm comfortable with that person.
discombobulate;
I hug everyone.

No molestation, thankyou.
iPhets
dont really care.. i just stand there and let them hug me lol

i dont remember the last time i actually hugged my parents
linuhhparkk
Haha, I don't really care. As long as we're both comfortable with each other. smile.gif
bishie_bashie
parents: hugs, kisses
friends: hi-5s, hugs
someone i like: dont know.
abviolinplayer
QUOTE (joogrlpekaun @ Mar 23 2008, 11:54 PM) *
I'm pretty much not ok with skinship ever. I hate hugging my parents and other relatives, I feel uncomfortable when friends try to hug me or even just touch me on the shoulder, and I ran into trouble dating guys because I wouldn't let them touch me and couldn't stop myself from getting really tense at even the slightest touch. The only touching I'm ok with, strangely enough, is like friendly punches to the arms or shoulders. It's....a bit of a problem for me sometimes that I hate being touched so much.


ahh I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem! Maybe it's partly cuz my family just aren't touchy people...idk, we never hug or anything unless one of us going away for a long time. I never initiate hugs, and when people hug me I'm kinda stiff. mellow.gif
xljh=)


Yeah, I honestly don't remember the last time I hugged my parents. xD They don't show their affection that way, ahah. xD But, i'm comfortable with anything if i'm really close to them. =)
Hemera
im like a freaking cat around people im close to sweatingbullets.gif

mom: hugging and i'll peck her on the lips once in a while
stepdad: he can pat me on the back
close friends: like my mom, but i won't kiss them
strangers: i'll flinch if you touch my arm -____-"
tjh246
parents: hugs, pecks on my cheek/forehead, sometimes i still hold hand with my mum and dad when we're out smile.gif

friends: hugs, holding hands, i dont mind giving my best friend a peck on her cheek, butt smacking lol
tangerine_kisses
Parents: hug and kiss (on cheeks)

Siblings: hug and kiss on cheeks.
and i piggyback on my older brother. haha

Friends: hug. hold hands. put arms on each other. biggrin.gif
maybeshesblonde
Parents: Hugging, and kisses on the cheek, smile.gif
Friends: Hugging, holding hands? lol, when they kiss my head and cheek haha, slapping my butt haha, probably anything,
Someone I Like: Mmm, you know, wink.gif
Ass3nav
Anything with anyone.. as long as I'm comfortable with them.
minni_babyy
parents: hugging is definately ok.. brother's very >w< about hugging him. XD
friends: (guy friends) we've never hugged each other but we've been at sleepovers and we're all sprawled across the floor while watching movies, but we go back into our sleeping bags when it's time to sleeep, so we respect each other.
(girl friends) we hug and stuff, and same with guy friends, we sprawl all across the floor when we watch movies and stuff..
person i like: doesn't really matter, he IS the person i like.
boyfriend: nothing that crosses the line

to tell you the truth, for boyfriend, i've never had one so i don't know yet.
*Luminde
Lol, I'm probably going to seem really frigid, but I'm really not comfortable with anything more than a quick and friendly hug, with even my closest of friends.

Hahaha, I can't even put up with a peck on the cheek. @_@;;

Lawl, I used to kiss my parents good night, or when they were going to work.. but now, I just hug them, and shy away when they try to kiss me.

LOL, I'm so frigid. xD
stjapo46
Parents: hugging...a kiss on the cheek once in a while is okay haha
Friends: Almost anything ^^;
Person I like: don't really know
adrenaline__x
parents: hugging, kissing on the cheek
friends: girls: anything boys: hugs, cheek to cheek?
boyfriend: anything. like dancingbymyself said, im a total hoebag.
latina
i have no problem when it comes to my family.

But when it comes to other people, i'm the type of person who likes being touchy feely but i hate it when they do it to me.
domokunn
parents : hugs and some kisses
friends : anything not too extreme
bf : anything
satisfaction!
If I'm reallyyyy comfortable with that person, then I really dont care.
But if it's someone I barely know, then uh, no thanks buddy. I won't even let them touch my fingers ._.
sleepismytherapy
parents: .... depends on my mood....
friends: depends on my mood....
BOYFRIEND: DEPENDS ON MY MOOD.
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tinil-galia
I guess hugging is the furthest I'd go for now.
I don't really enjoy bodily contact other than hugs. HAH!
miss_vicky
Parents: I've never really hug them to be honest, but I wouldn't mind though.

Friends: Hugs pretty much

Person I Like: Not really sure though.
jjocelynnnn
friends: anything I guess just don't cross my line smile.gif boyfriend: pretty much anything this goes for the guy I like to but perhaps I'd be a bit more shy around them hehe and parents: only hugging ugh I hate it when my parents try to kiss me or even share a drink with me. But I don't mind sharing with a friend. Hehe I'm weird like that sometimes
yg_bigbang
I love hugs from everybody smile.gif
BABY´Dont`EAT<3Cake!
For me, lets just say.

Strangers: Hand shake - the end. ph34r.gif

Friends: Hugs - nothing too extreme, I seem like the coldest person on earth, don't I? ph34r.gif

Parents: Hugs and sometimes a fast kiss on the cheek (but that's quite rare though). ph34r.gif

Edit: I fail at skinship ph34r.gif
eunhae
Parents: hugs, holding my dad's arms, pretty comfortable with any of my mom's skinship
Friends: hugs, friendly kisses (poses)
Person I like: hugs, kisses, cuddling? haha i derno it depends
sweets201
anything with anyone, I just have to be comfortable with the person.
chinese tears <3
Usually with parents, family, and friends I don't like a lot of skinship. I don't like being physically close to a lot of people; bothers me. I've never had a boyfriend, but I think I would be okay with whatever as long as it's not too much.
~*BaybeE*~
parents: pecks on the cheek, hugging, holding hands

friends: anything~ i love them!

boyfriend: ANYTHING~ =P
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