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princess890
Do you ever wonder why pretty girls are more likly to date/marry fat+really ugly guys
but it's rarely the same the other way around?Like you rarely see hot guy&obese ugly girl crazy.gif
angelqian
cuz guys are a lot shallower.
bAbystAr_jjUngg
^agreed.
i've seen this one hot guy dating this one really not pretty, overweight girl. but just one. usually, it's the other way around.
skicheri
cause the reason why is that
pretty girls go for guys who are not so great looking
showing that the guy will appreciate them
and will definitely not cheat on them, but for a hot
guy to date an ugly girl is not likely unless that guy isn't shallow
cause most guys go for looks, instead of personality =.=
KOGEPANN;)
I don't know but my aunty once told me
marrying a ugly guy, he'll know how to appreciate you a lot more, go for them!
.. 0____o!! I don't know if it's true because there are a lot of ugly people who also have ugly personalities.
but sometimes it can be the other way around, again due to the guy/girl's personalities and not on looks.
jpnoroe3
MONEYYYYYYYYY (;
haha. well, i think so
Swiss Cheese
^^Sadly, I have to agree with her.
Moola baby~!
envyandy
isnt it because girls dont want their bf to be better looking then they are, like they get compared or something.
ex:
you are a girl and your bf was prettier then you, how would you feel?
remember, girls like picking flaws out and get jealous easily.
cpopbaby19
^LOL. I guess that could be the case too~ tongue.gif

but I agree with the rest above. I think it's because guys care more with the girls' look than personality. ._.
Eight Lettered Lie
If someone is with someone based on looks, it is not love.
Why do you always ask these shallow questions princess?
Hikuuu
Most pretty boys are jerks ;(

And ugly guys usually have more monies <33
j00n
Well since we're generalizing i'll say it's because women gold dig more than men. You always hear women say "i just need to marry a rich guy"...but you rarely hear a guy say they need to marry a rich woman.

^Most pretty/hot women are shallow, demanding, materialistic, intellectually dulled, loud, bossy, jerks. And yes, most pretty boys are as well...what's ironic is they're the ones that get all the women.
pencil_geeks*
some girls don't care how the guy looks like. just as long as he has the personality to over power his ugliness.
xstarsunx
i would say that some girls are afraid of dating pretty boys because most pretty boys have a lot of friends who are girls and are very flirty, etc, etc.

plus, for most of us girls, when you get to know a guy, and his personality is great, looks dont even matter anyway.

and this is my own opinion regarding what i've experienced and seen with boys around my area:

boys are competitive, they want a pretty girlfriend to show off to their friends....so their friends will be jealous! hahah.

i hope nobody gets offended by what i just said...cuz i didn't mean to!
viper2788
QUOTE (angelqian @ Mar 24 2008, 02:43 PM) *
cuz guys are a lot shallower.

cuz girls are gold diggers!! who needs looks!! tongue2.gif
candydive.
QUOTE (angelqian @ Mar 24 2008, 02:43 PM) *
cuz guys are a lot shallower.


QUOTE (jpnoroe3 @ Mar 24 2008, 03:10 PM) *
MONEYYYYYYYYY (;
haha. well, i think so


i agree with both. this world isn't perfect, neither isn't anyone. sad isn't it ?
Ass3nav
I see alot of hot/goodlooking guys with fat, ugly girls. mellow.gif
addicted2kdrama
QUOTE (princess890 @ Mar 24 2008, 11:41 AM) *
Do you ever wonder why pretty girls are more likly to date/marry fat+really ugly guys
but it's rarely the same the other way around?Like you rarely see hot guy&obese ugly girl crazy.gif


Damn it!!! Where my pretty girl??? HA~

Well my theory is, good looking guys can't handle the bitchy attitude of pretty girls, only ugly guys with great personality can.
itrayya
QUOTE (angelqian @ Mar 24 2008, 11:43 AM) *
cuz guys are a lot shallower.


^ sho is.

you gots it right sista. tongue.gif

girls are more open to relationships,
as guy are more aware of the image.
bleh.
Apple.Mint
Yup!!
like i know this friend
she's freaking pretty and skinny
her boyfriend is a bit overweight, and just not that good looking
and i also know this girl
who is totally overweight
short, dark..um..yeah not pretty [no offense]
but she's dating this really cute guy
but he's from like canada or something
missxsmiles
because girls are more likely to be with someone for their power, money, position, etc.
mle_4u
well i learned in my psychology class that since guys main goal is to reproduce, they naturally look for attractive females to mate with. Meanwhile, on the other hand, women are meant to have babies so they have to chose a mate that is socialeconomically stable to support her and her babies. So its basically natural instincts for guys to go for more attractive looking SO while their counterpart goes for being financially stable first.
Pogichinoy
Girls are more insecure than guys and are worried that good looking guys will leave them thus they choose ugly guys.

Ugly guys generally are more richer than good looking guys.
rainparade
Actually I've seen more of the ugly girl + handsome guy combo than vice versa.
Maybe it's because girls tend to look at the personality rather than the physical
appearance. I don't know and I'm a girl.
MilkTeaRunSugar*
yeah it's true loooool
goes for 3 couples i know =p
personality>looks for girls more than guys i guess
bebexlove
Sounds like my friend. xD

She's pretty and not skinny but not overweight either.. pretty healthy.. but her bf is a fat-gothicish guy? ^^;

Doesn't bother me tho. smile.gif As long as they're happy together, more power to them. ^^
MEiRiN
something called gold digging? :x

but hmm... Eh. Sometimes it's the other way around.
Sometimes it's not.
It's up to the people involved (:
Antz
true.
those types i see are the gangster wannabe kind of couples.
so annoying.
but the girl is pretty annoying lol.
vip_gd
hey it's true in a way
you see them pretty girls walkin' with their ugly and/or fat boyfriends
eRzzie
ahh.. sometimes it's sad.
but most of the time we assume that they go for the money.
or to show the world that even though they're pretty they "don't go for looks".
but who knows, they saw something in the guy that we don't see lol tongue.gif

like my friend. she's real pretty and has a superb model bod, but her bf is just. UGH.
but she REALLY LOVES him. it's either she's just too blinded already, or he's a very sweet talker & knows how to keep her heart.
angelqian
QUOTE (itrayya @ Mar 24 2008, 06:07 PM) *

^ sho is.

you gots it right sista. tongue.gif

girls are more open to relationships,
as guy are more aware of the image.
bleh.


sista? I'm a guy.
resa_massu
i think it just comes down to the person. But i will say i see it more common for girls then guys.
I think girls are more open to the personality then guys in that aspect.
Elfen Lied
well usually the very pretty guys have a small d**k tears.gif
mooshi x3
^LMAO.

personality counts more than looks.
<3goesDOKIDOKI
actually i have seen a few hot guy ugly girl combo, but you're right it is really rare
there are more girls tt hacan look past looks and go for personality than there are guys
r3dalf
QUOTE (addicted2kdrama @ Mar 25 2008, 07:03 AM) *
Damn it!!! Where my pretty girl??? HA~

Well my theory is, good looking guys can't handle the bitchy attitude of pretty girls, only ugly guys with great personality can.


oh dude! that is so true! hhhahahaha. welcome to the club bro.
sweets201
Well one of our family friends is this really hot guy. He looks like Chad Michael Murray but better! xD He married this girl who's not the prettiest one of them all and she was overweight, they ended up having two kids. He treats her like a queen. It just depends on the guy, he may look like a jerk but once you actually go talk to them they can be the sweetest guys you can ever meet. For me I think it's just some guys just want girls for looks and some girls just want guys for personality, thats all. smile.gif
thyun
thought about why the "pretty" girl is dating the ugly guy? Yea, you can say it's personality and all that...but... ^^
_ATELIER
the first thing that comes into mind is " ho'wd a guy like her get a girl like him?" or the other way around, but i guess people aren't shallow ya know? my friend thinks it's cute to see a dorky/ugly guy wiht a pretty girl. xD
YO ITZZ JASONN
because personality is more important to them rather than looks!!!
Pogichinoy
QUOTE (Elfen Lied @ Mar 26 2008, 06:00 AM) *
well usually the very pretty guys have a small d**k tears.gif



Gahahahahha xD
chitah
cuz guys are shallow. jk. iono about that. for me, although i always talk about wanting to bang some hot guy, in the end, personality really does count. and usually the 'ugly' guy doesnt care so much about his looks that hes more down to earth. and the pretty looking guys are more....sassy and iono. blah?
hangbok_2007
I see that happening.
It's just girls are I guess more into the "I should discover that person's charm before deciding about that person".
And I think the handsome guys just...get intimidated with the pretty girls...like oh does she have a bf?
Maybe some things like that.

Sometimes the girl just gets tired to handsome men pestering her and wants to find someone that'll see them for them.
Beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder, to a certain extent.

A guy that may be ugly to someone may be really cute to someone else.
alainachen_604
I think because usually hot guys can have any girl they want so they would cheat on the girls..
bbyxwinnie
to make the girl feel more secure? lols
mims
cause these pretty girls like it when people say to them " omg you are so hot! why are you dating a guy like him?!?"
lol so many girls are insecure.. who knows really
EinTrigger24
that's because many guys would rather be single than date someone that they might be ashamed of. guys are shallow.. boo
addickshun
maybe pretty girls likes dating ugly guys. who knows?!
googizle
this topic is Sooooooooooooooooo funny. its one of The funniest topics i've ever read.
limp
in my opinion, smart and handsome guy are gallant.
blink.gif blink.gif So the best choice is choose the guy who have one love. Even they are ugly...
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