So, a lot of us have had kisses, a lot of us haven't, but what i want to know is, how is a good kiss suppose to feel? I mean, theres all this talk about good kisses and bad kisses and how some people are good or bad kissers, so can anyone tell me what a good kiss is?

Is there something in the tongue movement?

Is there something in how the lips move?

What is it in general that makes a kiss good and bad?

I'm not talking about the butterflies in the stomach or the "it makes my world spin" factor by the way. Devoid of all emotional factors, what makes a kiss good? I have had my first kiss btw, but yea, i was just wondering. Also, feel free to share your personal experiences. Always good to hear about those really bad kisses which were like too slobbery or how"their tongue felt like a piece of sandpaper" (these are just examples btw, not my experiences).

bad kiss= sloppy & when the guy tries to suck on your mouth
good kiss= i cant really explain. it depends on the person but it should make you feel good inside.

lol tough question to answer. but without getting into detail..

good kiss: you both enjoy it and youre in a peaceful state of mind(quiet/no distractions). there also needs to be synconization between the two.
bad kiss: either one or both of you dont enjoy it.. as in not feel up to it at the moment. also distractions! try kissing on a bumpy car ride.. you'll feel like idiots.

It' everything. Bad technique = bad kiss... and technique includes lips, tongue, saliva, aggressiveness/gentleness, etc... one bad thing can ruin the kiss.

LMFAO. umm.
bad: salivary, tongue going everywhere, biting, bumping teeth D:
good: not too fast, not too slow. umm.. and one that has a lot of meaning.

Hm...
Even if there is technique, if one person can't go with the flow with the other person, then it's a bad kiss. I say it's good when everything goes with the flow. And trust me, you KNOW when it's going with the flow or not.
I love it when a guy slightly bites my lips, it feels really good lol.

Good kiss : Gentle, slow and nice, with good technique! it's guaranteed to make you smile all day.
Bad kiss: You get the feeling that he's about to eat your lips, you can feel his tongue inside your mouth as if it's getting spasms? XD

i so agree with you, i've had a few bad kissers in the past and a lot of times it was due to the guy just not going with the flow. bad kissers would also be sloppy kissers who slobs all over your mouth and those who are stiff kissers who can not get up any sort of motion or rythym (either with tongue or not).

the best kiss i've ever had was with an ex of mine it was literally as if we were dancing on air... the chemistry and mood were always great; he's a very passionate and gentle kisser... that's what i like.

I don't like the question.
Why would a kiss not be emotional =/ I think that's a huge part in it.
But physically...bad kiss = slobber everywhere and lack of oxygen intake.

Obviously there needs to be some sort of synchronisation during a good kiss. A bad kiss = sloppy/too much saliva/bad breath/uncomfortable, etc.

err i posted too much detail. bit paranoid someone's gonna read it.
um a bad kiss shouldn't just be based on technical aspects
but since you asked for it...
either too passionate as in you're gonna eat each other up
or so stiff that it's not even like a kiss.

Uhh a kiss obviously has emotion but ok....
I guess a bad kiss is sloppy and the person slobbers all over you :x
But I'm not sure how to describe a good kiss, but you just know if its good or not

I'm not saying that a kiss is not emotional...far from it. Of course a kiss has to have emotion, that's probably what makes or breaks the kiss. BUT, from what i can see, there seem to be two factors to a good kiss, the emotional factor, and the technique/physical aspect. What i was asking about was purely the technical or physical aspect of a good or bad kiss.

A lot of the answers so far have been great. Thanks to everyone thats replied. =D

Hope to see more opinions posted. =]

Good kiss: Bite tongue off, fire breath
Bad kiss: Everything not mentioned above.

IF IT LEAKS, IT IS BAAADD

^ EW
if its sloppy and the other person is literally trying to eat your face and trying to send your mouth into a black hole, its bad

it's definitely a bad kiss when the guy's sucking your mouth too hard til' your jaw hurts.

well for a very bad guy like me.

good kiss = touchy touchy.. doesnt matter where.. hhehehe

bad kiss = mm just a kiss meh..

lol.

i would have no idea about a good kiss from a bad kiss since ive never actually had one and wont really one until i actually get kissed ><"

well i guess it just kinda happens when you kiss and theres not really a way to perfect your kissing abilities.
or is there? O______o

A good kiss has you craving for more =]

Mmm, I don't know since I haven't experienced a kiss yet

But in my innocent *chough*not*chough* head, it goes like this:

Bad kiss = kissing a person you don't love.

Good kiss = kissing a person you love.

I think I'll wait for a good kiss though ... I shall run away now *runs for my life*

Good - clean
Bad - sloppy=[

there was this one kiss i will never forget! the guy was like gently sucking on my tongue almost like massaging it with his. oh yum he was so hot too!

The difference is if anyone goes "Ouch!!".

A bad kiss is just nasty.

sloppy, overdone, saliva everywhere, painful, and is enough to make you wanna throw up.

a good one is when u want more lol

you`ll just know when its a good kiss (;

simply said.

first bad kiss= ouch! i end up having a canker sore on the bottom of my tongue! freaking hurts! sucked my tongue SOOOOO hard i could barely pull it back into my own mouth! BAD KISS.

second bad kiss= WTF?! it had seen like the dude didnt know what to do with his tongue, for god's sake he kept his tongue in his OWN mouth and wiggled it back and forth! i had to get in there to suck it out! BAD KISS.

i guess you can't take me seriously cuz i've never kissed a guy, but i was with a guy i was veryyy much attracted to and we were physically close enough for a kiss to almost happen on several occasions cuz he's tried lols.

and you may think i'm crazy but with him i could understnad what it feels like to kiss someone and how it could feel good. for any other guy though, it would just feel platonic and gross.. hello foreign breath and saliva

but back to this guy. first comes attraction, yes. then the kiss should be slow, soft, and yielding, and get slightly wet

yes this guy turned me on like crazyyy. i do'nt regret not kissing him though cuz he turned out to be a real jerrrkk.

you mean this guy who gave you a good kiss turned out to be a real jerk?

in what way was he a jerk.....

btw we never actually kissed, but got physically intimate as far as cuddling, holding oe another..

and o man where to start.. we both fell for each fast and hard and then bam.. he calls me by his ex's name and mentions a girl he hadn't yet broken it off with, and so decides on slowing it down with me, by suggesting i go out with this guy friend of mine.
it goes on and on..
even when i tried to be his friend, he'd suggest plans not follow through, call me up asking if i had a pencil, white-out, etc.

the LAST straw, he said "i was playing the wii.. and thinking of you.. how i wanted to punch you in face.. maybe cuz i'm mad at you"

i knew he was mad cuz i was hanging out with one of his guy friends. WHAT right did HE have to be mad when he was the who ended things and WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND SAYS THAT KIND OF THING.

we argued on the phone and i was done with him but he called back crying so i decided to meet him in person to talk it over and get some freaking closure but he showed up high on drugs, wanting to party and club, saying he thought of me as a little sister, yet touching my face, honding my hands and telling me that i was so pretty.

i ignored his phone calls, emails, approaches and the dude should get the hint right..?

its like MONTHS later.. a week ago actually, he does a 180 to talk to me. and i'm looking at him with absolute no interest and total disdain and he has the nerve to say 'why are you acting so cold to me?"

LOL. i realize this is not the reply you were expecting, but there's no real way for ppl to get it unless they get the whole story. soo complicated

AND because of him, i stopped meeting that friend of his, who i really did like sooo sooo much and still do, but i've given up on love and romance

he killed my heart too many times. that last meeting we had i just felt mourning because i realized he was NEVER the guy i had fallen for.

anywayss.. to add to the topic..

a bad kiss is forced, unsure and slobbery

a good kiss should be mutually paced, and it really depends on the person and how emotionally turned on you are by that person.

sighh. i won't be experiencing that for.. well ever at this rate =/

when he slobers[sp] on you, and makes you think "wth is he doing?" then it's obviously bad lol