Hey guys. I hope I'm posting this at the right section!

So, I have this friend of mine [she's 13.] And she never had a bf before.
She told me that her classmates keep teasing her that she never had a boyfriend before and that they always leave her out and ignore her and talk about boys all the time. And they're also 13 yr olds.
She told me that they always blab about how they kissed so much, where they went out...etc.
And whenever they ask her like "Have u kissed before?" and then they start making fun of her saying "Oh! Of course she hasn't! She never had one before! Hahahaha."

So what I'm saying here is, is it ok for a 13 yr old to not have a bf?
Cause I've seen that mostly some 12 yr olds already have boyfriends... [I'm not saying every 12 yr old..just some because I know some people in my school]
And I feel really sorry for her that she's always alone and everything...just because she's "inexperienced" [as they say..they as in her classmates] and never had one.

LOL its fine with me

my first gf was in year 4 =)

young love but HA!. didnt even last that long

Tell her to tell her friends that they are immature, it is PERFECTLY normal for a 13 year old not to have a boyfriend.

Even if her friends to have one at such a young age, they won't last for long.

She should be focusing on her stidies rather than worrying about such things.

.______.

My god, of course! Kids these days~ @__@; There are alot of people who're over 13 and didn't have any boyfriend / first kiss and they do not bother at all. ;_;

Why would someone need a bf at 13 anyway?

it's perfectly normal not to have one

heck, that's probably a bit young even

LOLOLOLOLOL



when ur 13.... its at a point where. u can say u like someone to any random person and within 2 hours that person will know and ask you out reguardless of if that person knows u or not LOL

when a girl teases another girl about not having a bf.... that girl can simply say. yea im the bank of america im locked up, but you!! DAMN pinkberry YOU LIKE WALMART!! OPEN 24 7!! LOL

tell her to tell her friends to shutup.
haha talk to them about stds:P

YES it is normal for a 13 year old to NOT have a bf. like seriously, i think you're too young to have one..like you're still in elementary school (no offense or anything) but still..im like 15 and i still don't have a bf.

I had a boy tease me about not having my first kiss when I was 13/14. He then just decided to lay one on me.

uhh ye dude its normal not to have a s/o when ur 13...

I highly doubt all of them have had boyfriends.

I think a few of them would just be making it up to "fit in with the group" or simply use it as an excuse to tease and bully, which I find rather pathetic.

Yes, it's very normal for a 13 year old to not have had a boyfriend.

People mature at different rates and it is their own personal choice whether or not they want a boyfriend.

are you serious?
most of my friends never even had boyfriends at the age of 13.
that is seriously too young.
those people are immature. =_=
i never had a boyfriend until i was 16.

If at 13 years old its not normal to have a boyfriend, I hate to know what is wrong with me at 19 yrs old not having one yet.

You see people complaining of never dated at age 18-21, and now we have little kiddies posting stuff like this. ROCK ON!

yes it's totally normal otherwise i would be abnormal because i've never had a bf before and im turning 18 this year :X

good heavens what is up with little girls these days?!! 13?!! theyre hardly even teenagers! its normal not to have a bf for atLEAST a few more years.... her classmates are gonna grow up to be

of course it's normal, but if you're 20 or over and you don't have a bf/gf .. mangg you better get one asap

i think its normal
i'm 16 and never have bf... i'm too picky... >.<

It's perfectly fine... don't let the other girls make ur friend feel down..

I"m almost 18 and i've never been in a relationship before.. -__-"
who wants to be my bf? lol jk..

In my opnion, to be dating at the age of 13 years old .. that is wayyyyyyyyyy too young.







Get her to retort back, "Do you know what real love is? Because you're only infatuated. And I bet you don't even know what infactuation means."


Immature I know, but these are kids we're talking about.

whats the rush for a freaking 13 year old? tell her not to worry cause she'll get plenty good ones when she turns 21 hahaha

WOW... not having a boyfriend at 13 is COMPLETELY normal. i think having one at 13 is something to question. When I was 13 girls were still chasing boys around after lunch. I myself didn't have a bf or my first kiss until I was 17.

HA!
of course it's ok...omg..i'm 24 and i'm stilll single. Your friend has too much time to think about it.

It's not normal at all. Something's definitly so wrong.

Kidding.

Call me cynical, but they're thirteen, and they're probably lying about half the stuff they "did" with their "boyfriends" for the sake of showing off.
The bulk of middle school girls are completely and clinically retarded. Remember that.




Anyway. Not having a boyfriend at 13 is not only normal, it's probably expected by most people. There are still years for starting relationships. There's really no rush at all. And the older you are, no one else cares. If you hit high school and are still single and they still make fun of you, tell them to stfu or gtfo, they need a life. F*ck that, I'd just tell them "At least I'm not easy."

gosh these "classmate/friend" are so immature. i've seen many people that are also my friend that haven't even dated once yet and their in college???
u should aleast backup ur friend and let her know that she ain't alone in this situation. if they are going to be like that then smack them in the head or sumthing. LOL!



PWHAHA! I LIKE THAT! LOL! SO TRUE!

man kids these days... 13 is way too young .... tell her that shes perfectly fine and that the other kids don't even know what true love is anyway -.-

wow kids are really lame nowadays huh
lol for us highschoolers, if we find a girl who has never had a boyfriend before
we'd be trying to hook her up or iono something but not tease her
next time those girls tease her, you should tell her to tell it in their face that they're immature and that they're going to live in the dumpster in the future if all they care about is boys xD hhaha maybe not the second part
but watev, those are mean girls lol, my first boyfriend was when i was 15 and that didn't last very long
lol the only meaningful relationship i've had so far..is right now
which is when i'm 17
lol so yeah

My brother (just turned 12) told me that everyone at school practially had a gf/bf. I was like," Are you freaking kidding me? They're like 12, they're not even fully developed yet!"

My sister's 13 and if I found out she had a boyfriend now. I'd kill her and hunt him down.

IT IS PERFECTLY NORMAL. Man, don't grow up too fast. Enjoy your nerdy preteen years boyfriendless!

my first bf was when i was 15.

She's still ever so young,
at this age?! a boyfriend?!!
No way, when I was 13 I was too busy having fun,
no time to get tied down having a boyfriend to commit to 24/7
some things can wait.
Good things take time right?
If she rushes things now, she'll probably regret it,
I mean look here on soompi, you get people 18 + over who's never been kissed,
I really admire them people a lot.
Dammit. Shouldn't have had a bf when I was 15, so pointless!

It's perfectly fine that she doesn't have a BF when she's 13. At least she knows that she's waiting for the special someone, unlike her other friends. Most of them probably won't even last.

it's very normal i would say... take your time. 13 is still so young.

that is completely ridiculous!
what kind of school is this? at my middle school no one really cared if you had a boyfriend or not, a kiss was actually a big thing, and if you didn't experience yet then it was completely normal.
what kind of crowd is she hanging around? from my experience the "bitchy bad somewhatwannabegangster" asian girls are like that

there have been people have gone without a boyfriend or their first kiss until they were well into college.
if you're thinking "oh it's because they're not attractive, or their personality blows" well you're wrong, they just haven't meant the right person they think they can be with.
i know plenty of people like that.

12/13 is a very young age, 7th or 8th grade am i correct? Well, you'll look back on your middle school "boyfriends" and laugh at the time you wasted and the big deal you made out of it.
and i'm talking from my own experiences here.

YES its very normal and okay to not have a boyfriend when you're 13.
I'm already 17 this year and i DUN HAVE a bf T_T
but most of my friends does'nt have a bf either,so i believe that its best to not rush into relationships so soon ^^

she never been kissed by her parents before??? she should answer yes to the kissing part.

OMG PLEASE UP THE DATING AGE!
The next generation is just creepy, having a boyfriend/girlfriend at 13 shouldn't be the standard >_< Anyway I know way older people who haven't had a bf/gf before.

i think tat it is fine to not have a bf at da age of 13.. becuz i think its a young age to even have a bf... da fact tat other girls have bfs and are "experienced" so wat? i believe tat they are too young to even think they lyk someone. i think tat they are with someone just so they look kool... lol..

well i hope tat your friend would just hang in there becuz of some stupid girls who doesnt consider other ppls feelings... sorry if i sound bitchy but i do believe tat they shouldnt put her down becuz she doesnt have a bf...

hope she feels better... and i think she should wait till high skool to consider havin a bf.. some guys are more mature then well not neccesarily all of them but most of them.. and they will take things more serious

i agree w/ angel @_@

these days we see things in the "next generation" what we do in our current generation...
im a senior, and i know massive amounts of people in highschool that have had sex...but now im hearing stuff about 12-13year olds that are? WTF!

Yes it is hun! You don't have to rush to be in a relationship, when the time is right, love will come T_T! Focusing on school is more important
Lol, i'm ranting too much *runs away*

Ps: I'm 15 and never had a bf

Edit: Those who make fun of her are just immature, that's not nice to try and put pressure on a friend, right?

it is perfectly normal for a 13 year old not to have a boyfriend!

you should start dating at the age of 18 =]

Isn't that too young to have a boyfriend? Her friends are just being immature.

OMG! of course it's normal!! you guys are practically still kids. your friend shouldn't be worried. i mean just cause everyone else has a boyfriend doesn't mean that she should follow the trend. tell your friend that she should only get a boyfriend if she likes the kid not because of peer pressure. and those other kids are immature brats.

wow, this thread makes me seem so olddd and inexperienced.
when i was 13 i was still playing with easy bake ovens.
I'm 17 now, turning 18 soon and I've neverr ever had a boyfriend before.
So your friend shouldn't feel bad for never having a boyfriend at her age.
Especially at 13.

I get what you mean. I mean seriously -0-^
Little kids these days think that they're college students -0-
13 year olds are supposed to be innocent!
Wtf. Lmao. Tell your friend this:
A rose who blooms fast, dies fast.
Seriously -0-^
I bet you, she'll get her true love<3
Haha. Boys are jerks. They're making girls cuz they only look at the looks -_____-x

wth
whaz happening to young ppl these days
imo its even "normal" not to have a bf/gf at the age of 22 or even 25
geez

=O, it is perfectly normal for a 13 year old to not have a boyfriend =T
besides, dating at such a young age? --".
tell your friend to just ignore what the other girls are saying and that
she should date a guy only when she feels she is ready... not because
of peer pressure ><.

rawrr, i swear those kids that are making fun of her
are just verrrry immature .

No offense but they're thirteen. I'm twenty-five and haven't had a boyfriend for various issues (mostly because I in the past was very shy and didn't take guys who liked me seriously and now I'm so busy with college). At thirteen you shouldn't have to worry about relationships either way except your friends and having fun and your studies and things like that. Everyone comes into relationships on their own timing. Peer pressure can suck.