Ok, so when a couple starts going out, they usually start off maybe giving the other person a little peck on the cheek before they split. Then after a couple of times, maybe a peck on the lips. Then a kiss on the lips, then it's a full passionate tongue fight.

This all takes time.

BUT. When me and my bf started kissing, we basically just didn't do it for the first 3 months and skipped right to one with lots of tongue o.O then we sat back and wondered, how do people peck on the lips? We tried it MANY times, and it just didn't seem right o.O

do people just do it with pursed lips and lightly touch? do they kind of touch lips with a tiny bit of tongue darting out?

we thought about it, tried it, and failed.

also how do people kiss without tongue? >.> I've always thought it normal for the tongue to be involved...

Can anyone share with me and suggest how to do it? xD Thanks!

rofl i love how u said ''passionate tongue fight ' ... just..give a quick kiss without tongue lol...thats basically it

Just press your lips together lightly. I don't see how you can't get it.. hahaha


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Yeah... I don't really know how else to explain it. Do you kiss with your tongues poking out or something?

Yea, I amazingly have the same problem as blueokami, except I'm a guy. Me and my gf went out for 3 months without anything happening...then suddenly we started tongue wrestling, skipping out on the cheek and lip pecks (does that seem weird, skipping out on those steps? o.O)

Yes, we've tried kissing without the tongue and just 'pecking' with lips pressed together as described above, but it felt weird...=P

Even trying to kiss simply without tongue is weird.

Seems like theres gotta be tongue or it ain't no fun

It's a bit hard to explain. I thought it was sorta a natural thing. But yeah, it's just a quick kiss with no tongue.

Let your lips lightly touch eachother softly.

Lipbalm helps make the experience more satisfying.

pucker up and press ur lips on ur significant other's lips...NO TONGUE!!!hahhahaha....u r quite funny....=]

rofl!
this made me laugh.
It's cute. Its a light quick kiss. No other way to explain it ^^''
it's suppose to be natural.

LOL well make sure you guys have a bit of a 'distance' from each other.
that way it won't lead to anything
just kind of 'peck' like a tap? with your mouth onto his and get back to your original position?
hahaha its quite simple(:

LOL. that's so funny

pecks are like easier than tonguing cuz pecks are like less than 1 second. haha.
it's just a light tap on the lips. haha.

no tongue, just kiss the lips quickly =D

whenever i "peck" i don't normally peck just once. it normally happens when the two of you are cuddled up and you just keep pecking in between words. that's how i've always done it, anyways. they're like quick kisses haha.

Instead of playing with each other's tongues, play with each other's lips! My girlfriend playfully bites my lower lip from time to time when we kiss.

But pecks are like, the simplest of all simple tasks. That's like how you kiss your mother when you're younger.

Unless you're "make-out" pecking which is like what sooziezoo said. If you did that to your mom I'd be worried, however.

all you need to do is to kiss quick and gentle.

Just go to any public park, scatter a bunch of bread flakes around you and study.

umm dont know about you guys, but when we do tongues, that leads to something else. so i usually aim for pecks while he aims for tongue. pecks are simple, just leave a gap between your lips and either aim for his upper lip or his bottom. if you got his top, then he's going to get your bottom, or other way around. in my POV, i think that's better than just lips to lips at the same level. i never do same level, that just seems awkward.

Lawl. I see what you did there. xD

A peck is basically like a HI5 with your lips. Except not as hard.

That's what I do. I usually go for his bottom lip. Sometimes I'll bite lightly. Guys seem to like that ;]

Rofl, passionate tongue fight. That's a win quote.

It's just like poking your s/o's lips with your own...? xD Haha.
Just a quick, light, gentle peck and that's it. No open mouth, tongue fights, etc.

uhhh lightly tap your lips together, and bring it back?
haha passionate tongue fight lmfao.

You may be thinking too much about it. There's really no technique so I think the first thing is to stop analyzing it so much xD

For me.. a peck is more of a situational thing. There are just some times when it's natural. To me it's not really "fun" although it feels nice, it's just more of saying things that are either unsaid or emphasizing things that are being said. Like "Hello" "Goodbye" "I love you" etc. Making out is more like playtime while pecks are a way of showing affection and basically saying "I'm just happy you're here."

... So I don't know how that helps... But maybe you had the wrong approach.. You seem to have a really structured outlook on how to kiss and what order to kiss, etc etc. Maybe you should just quickly kiss him when he's off guard. That way, it'll be harder for him to respond and either of you to use tongue because he won't be expecting it.

Also, you may just be used to how it feels to make out. Pecking doesn't give you that same feeling AT ALL. It's more of a comfort "I still love you" than a "I want you so bad. You turn me on." Both are nice so I hope you can work it out and get both.