So, when did you guys realise that you had feeling for someone, that you liked them (I'll refrain from using the word "love" since I don't really believe in love at first sight. You start off liking someone, then it kinda builds from there).

Was there some sort of defining moment which made you realise that you like that certain someone, maybe an old crush, or even a bf/gf (obviously, this defining moment would have occurred before you/they asked you out. Be kind of weird if they became your bf/gf, then you were like "omg, I like my bf/gf" o.O).

Also, feel free to also share how it turned out; whether you made a move on them, or asked them out, or found out they liked you back and asked you out =3

It just happens..it's unexplainable.
You just happen to like that person..
I don't consider having a crush on that person
is liking because most people have a crush on
someone even though they don't know that person.

I realized I liked my boyfriend the first day we hung out. It wasn't an incredibly strong feeling, just slight attraction. I was just really comfortable around him whereas I'm usually really quiet around people I've never met before. We became friends, I actually went through this period where I thought that comfort just meant I liked him as a friend. By the time I realized I really did like him (I don't know why or when I realized this) I thought it was too late because my closest friend at the time had a huge crush on him and I didn't want to hurt the friendship...

Long story short, I told her and we decided to both go for him without losing our friendship. I didn't actually make any moves but he ended asking me out anyways

After we were dating I realized that I liked him more to him than I thought when I was feeling sick and he wasn't calling. When he did call he just asked a quick question, not even asking how I was feeling. As soon as he hung up I started crying and I guess that's when I realized how much I really wanted him to care about me. Luckily, he called right back because he thought he heard that something was wrong in my voice. Turns out that earlier that day he saw me going to class and was just a moron and assumed that meant I was feeling better. He came right over and made me soup and took care of me for the rest of the night. That's when I really realized how special he is, even if he's a bit dense sometimes

^ Aww, that's so cute. x]

My moment wasn't anything special really, but I've known this guy for a really long time so I never really thought anything of him. Recently I guess I started feeling something but I ignored it for a while and then one time I saw him lying on the floor with his eyes closed listening to music and yeahh... haha, it's lame, but that was it. =]

you know, it doesn't necessary means you LIKE them. too lazy to type why.

when you start thinking about/miss that person when theyre not around.

The first time I meet her, i knew she was someone I wanted to be with forever. I just got that gut feelings, that she would be someone special to me, at that moment I knew If I could I would marry her. My search has finally ended, I don't know how many times I have recalled the moment I have meet her maybe millions of times. I don't how to explain it, I just feel so happy when I am with her. I could be happy forever, if we could only be together...

After our first kiss when he stumbled over his own footing and caused me to hit my head on my neighbor's door, but that didn't put a pause in the motion.

here's my moment: why is that guy trying to talk to her?

i'm not possesive or anything, but i get jealous ehrn im not going out with the girl.

At first I just thought he was cool and all, and didn't really care. We didn't know each other. Then in class one day he just threw some stuff at me and laughed (and I threw back and he threw it back again a few times). It was like a sudden click. I kept thinking about it the entire hour, hoping he'd throw the stuff back again.

From that point I just kept thinking about him and became super happy every day, lol. Of course sometimes there are sad days too, from something related to him.

Right now we're only good friends though, and I've gone over the craziness even though I still like him a lot.

when i had a dream about him&i on a date. LMFAO!!

i was confused at first , and it took me a couple of months during
the relationship for me to figure out that i truly liked him .
to bad it was too late .
but i guess you realize it when you miss them a lot and feel that
you are willing to do anything for them , no one can replace them
and you see a future with them in it .

The moment I laid eyes on him, I just knew......he was something special. When I'm with him, in a room full of people, it's like he's the the only one who exists....just to be near him makes me feel such happiness. When I'm with him, I feel like time stands still.....I can't stop reminiscing. I wish he was here with me right now. If only we could be together....but he keeps shying away....and I don't know why........

^ The way you put it sounded so perfect <3 It's definitely same for me. Me and my bf right now, we talked for a looong time and I just didn't show any interest in him at all but he was determined that he was in love with me the moment we met. It took me forever though to even grow a lking towards him. We are complete opposites, he and I don't share the same taste in ANYTHING but for some reason, we get along so incredibly well. Anyway, we talked every single night and slowly I started to think about him more during the daytime and began missing him a bit more than usual. Every thing that I did during the day before I got a chance to talk to him later on that night, everything reminded me of him. Every song that I heard, everything that I saw, I even started seeing billboards, street names, read books with his name on it and I just knew then, I had finally returned his love.

Some things you just know...

defining moment? when i found out i was going to have his kid.

When I start to notice that I can spot him a mile away out of a crowd.

when i didnt see him for 2 weeks! i missed hiim alot i cried.. yeh im a cry baby!! .. so i knew i liked him!

when I had dreams about that person.. & couldn't stop thinkin about that person T_T

The moment that I was blushing when he was around me, at his words.
I never blush.
The moment that I had the true butterfly feelings.
The moment that he makes me smile without him realizing it.
And the moment that I've realized that I miss him, and was constantly thinking about him.
I'm always constantly thinking of what his doing, who his with .. I think that's how you realize you like someone.


And honestly, I hate that feeling




Right now, the guy that I can finally admit that I like, we both know that we like each other.
We talk, we're sweet with each other yet we're not official, only because I have other things happening in life, and I don't like being rushed.
And also because he makes me feel insecure (even though I'm positive that I make him feel insecure too).


But I honestly don't think him and I would ever make it to the "official" stages.

when she creeps up in your mind when she's not around
and you give this goofy smile while others stare at you thinking you're crazy
yep... that's when i know she got me good... DOH!

The first time I realized I liked my crush, was.. when 2nd Semester started, and I found out he was in my Math class. He was a Sophomore in Freshman Algerbra and i'd always make fun of him because of that. xD And plus, he sat like.. 2 seats behind me. So i'd always turn around and talk to him. He was fun to be around, and was really random. He keeps me laughing non-stop. But than I started getting really self-cautious when I went to Math class, and i'd be like, "Wtf? What's wrong with me? It's Math." But after I sit down, i'd feel his eyes on my back, and i'd have that cautious feeling all over again. And I find myself blushing and laughing at his words a lot. (It doesn't help that I have Math 1st hour.) At first, I was like, "I only like him as a friend, I only like him as a friend." But than i'd always look for him in the hallway to see what he's doing, or wondering when i'll catch a glimpse of him again. And i'd smile becuase he was smiling. xD

Idk, it's a weird feeling. I was so confused, cause I thought I didn't like him, and I kept telling myself that. XD But, the feelings are there.

When my heart actually hurt physically due to not being able to see him for a while. It's hard to explain.
When seeing the person made my whole day brighten up. Maybe even the whole week.
When I couldn't look him in the eye for too long.
When I'd blank out trying to say something lol.


I just knew.

Heh.

When I woke up late for school one day (I only had class with him the morning) and was really frantic without realising why. Usually, I would have skipped that class anyway.

when he was ALWAYS on my mind.
and when i keep looking at him.
and whenever i talked to him, i would just get so shy and embarrassed and too happy. and i wouldn't stop smiling at him.

I guess my defining moment for my current crush is when I was watching him dancing and realized how cute he was.
Then I started thinking about how considerate he is and all of that. That's when I really came to the conclusion that I had a crush on him.

Never noticed him at ALL until he opened the door for me, and then later on let me cut in front of him when I was in a rush. [not in a flirty way, but just really sweet and gentlemanly]
so basically i was like, "awww~"
And then started noticing he was cute...had to find out his name, etc.

When I got really jealous just because he started to pay a little more attention to my friend than me. XDD

I know that feeling.
I always thought people were just talking figuratively whenever they said "my heart hurts," but I've found out that it really does physically hurt when I haven't seen him for a while, even after a few hours.

I knew because of that ^, but I also found out when I realized that I don't talk to anyone else like I talk to him...
I laugh too much, blush too much, joke too much, and make too many sarcastic remarks in front of him.

):

LOL mines is really recent and im still trying to figure out what to do.
But I did it without thinking, I was in the room with the guy.
I was walking outof the room and he was standing looking at something on the wall.
Without thinking, I just hugged him from behind and walked out.
That's when I knew I had just developed a crush. lol XDXD

uhhh, when people starts to ask if you like a person or ever thought about liking a person and then you start spending more time w/that person and feelings start to appear XD

^
Agreed.

when i can't get my mind off that person & missing him like crazy.

when that person just makes you undeniably giddy. when all you wan to do is talk to them, hug them, run into them. and always feel like you're missing them until you get your next 'fix'. sighhh. its so confusing cuz there's this guy i felt like that with, but i've been in the dumps the last couple of months so it's been clouding my feelings for him. so i've been avoiding him and i kinda talked to him about it, but he probably doesn't know the whole gist of it.. i like him but i don't think i can be wit him because he deserves to be with someone happy and who has it together =/

when i get jealous of every girls near him.

When every person that passes by, you wonder if that's her. When you finally see her, your heart starts racing uncontrollably. You don't understand why but it happens. There are so many moments. I cannot remember them all.

Having known the person for a while but not really close friends. Suddenly my eyes start following that person around wanting to know more about him. That's when I realize that I'm attracted to that person.

I would deny it all the time. He was pretty good looking even though
he just hanged out with ordinary guys. He barely talked to girls.
I thought I just admire his looks and it was a small infatuation.

And then BAM! One day he had a bunch of girls flirting with him and
honestly I just exploded in my head. Jealousy. XD

Nope. I never got to talk to him. :/
Even being in the same class...

I fail.

No matter what you do , no matter where you are.... If you are always think of someone , it shows that you are falling in love...

when suddenly looking straight into their eyes seem impossible

it just kinda happened...like i started to think about the person everyday...

and like jealousy is a big clue

the first time i saw him, i thought nothing of him, but a year later, i saw him and found him attractive =p

i don't know, i just began to like him unlike before; i thought he wasn't my type

i know i like someone when i cant get him out of my head.
i cant stay mad at that person for like 20 seconds.
well, i am pretty much sure about how i feel for someone, after knwing him sooo much.

right now, if you ask me...im feeling kinda numb.=D

when i like someone..... d'mn! he's all that ever matters..
makes my heart jumps even just seeing his name or got a word from him or just seeing him signing in..

@};~babybara

Why didn't he approach me today? It's because I annoy him, isn't it? I've got to stop mothering him. Why does he talk to so many girls? Geez. Why is he taking so long to reply on MSN? I bet he's talking to those good-looking girls I saw him with today. Should I start a conversation?... Or would that annoy him? Sh-t. What if he's busy doing work?

^ I know I like someone when I start to stress, stress, stress.

Weird attraction. But I hate how they can't get out of your mind. Even when you try to get rid of it, they end up appearing all over twice as much again. And I don't like feeling dizzy or nervous to where I can't concentrate on important stuff like studying or tests..

Just by hearing his name is enough to make me jump or blush.

Simple, if the girl looks pretty enough and I feel I'm comfortable with her being with me I'll like her. Personality comes later. When I see that she is with other guys and I get jealous it's a clear sign lol.

When I realized that there was nobody else I wanted to be with more and when looking at him made my heart beat and ache for him.
...Damn him.

- when i keep refreshing my facebook inbox page to see if he has replied my msg..
- when i can easily spot him out in the crowd
- when his name and face is stuck in my head for the whole day
- when i blush at the moment a bump into him
- when i feel really shy in front of him
- when i can remember everything he said even though the convo happened last week

when you cannot stop thinking about them even if you try your hardest. when he/she are around you get butterflies and start turning red. when you dont want to say goodbye to them when you guys are parting for the day. when you just think of them, you smile.

when i get upset at him, and with one call from him, i forget his mistakes.
when the negatives outweigh the positives, yet i still look forward to meeting with him.

it's so frustrating..