Who do you talk with it about??
How do you feel afterwards??

Usually, I talk about people behind their backs when they really frustrate me, but when I do it I always end up feeling really bad.
I usually talk to people who feel the same way about the person but sometimes I talk with really big mouthed people cause I want it to get around.

Also, if you don't talk about people behind their backs, do you just straight forwardly go up to them and tell them how you feel or keep it to yourself?

Side Note: Do your parents talk behind people's backs?

In a way, I do and don't. I only do it if the persons made me bad, or is just plain annoying me, and I just only talk with it to my my family or my really close friends. That's about it really. Sometimes it's good talking, and other times, it's bad. I don't say it straight to their face because I don't see them often, and I just don't feel like saying it to them when I already ranted to someone else already, unless it was a good comment, then I would say it to their face. Anyways, my parents. I'm not sure, I guess they do, and they don't. It's mostly out of frustration basically.

Yes I do, if they said or did something bad, or they're just being a bioch. i usually talk about them to my close friend at school and on IM with my other close friend far away, if i remember to bring it up. but i just do that to the ppl that i don't like. hahah. but usually they must be a total bioch for me to do that.

yeah my parents talk behind ppl's backs too. only about the ppl they don't like or did something rude or mean to them.

Usually I talk about good things behind people's backs...like how much I think they are good people and all that.
But sometimes some people frustrate me and I talk about how much on what they did to frustrate me and adding my own commentary lol.
I talk about it with people I'm close with and yeah I do feel bad when I think about maybe someone thinks the same way about me and saying stuff.

But if I feel strongly and I want to piss them off, I'll say it to their face. But usually the other side starts it.
But then again, I would feel lazy and forget about telling the person at times.

My mom talks a lot about people she hates behind their backs. She says the same things over and over.
Sometimes I'm the one who tries to calm her thoughts and analyze it so she won't have to say as much.

i think it's something that's hard not to do it. like when i really hate someone,.. i really want to tell a friend of mine to express my anger.. it's a natural thing from human : ).