Who here is over 20 and hasn't kissed anyone b4? or never had a bf/gf?

if u haven't, u abrnormal/normal?

On average, 20+ year olds have had their first kiss and/or a significant other before.

for me, kiss yes. gf not yet.

lol Why would that make anyone seem abnormal?

Who cares. Dont make an obsession out of it.

Enjoy life, be happy, and you'll get your kiss AND gf soon.

hahah! it does seem quite funny after reading it again.


in this day n age, it feels like the 40 yr old virgin

this thread is pointless without pics.

Can't say that I haven't had a first kiss.
Can't say that I haven't had a girlfriend either.

But it does feel like over 20 years since I had either.

i got my 1st kiss 1 month before turning 20.
i've never had a boyfriend and i'll be 23 in september.

so...i don't mind (well not too much) waiting for a good person.

it's not abnormal, they say good things happens to those who wait ^_~

ive kissed and had a gf before 20.

Haha...

i never kissed anyone before nor i had girlfriend..am i an abnormal person? i tink im not...

I was going to comply and take a pic of myself not getting kissed and another of me with no girlfriend until I realized that it really IS a pointless endeavor.

LOL

kiss = yes
gf = nothing official

I know I fall into this category....it's not that I feel pathetic, just that I feel like I've missed out on a lot in life due to my own choices/faults

what he said

lol that's funny, My friend she's 22 this year, I assume she haven't. Never heard she have a bf. And she's a good girl.

As for me yeah I've kissed during teenage years.

I wouldn't say it's abnormal or normal. Cause I respect my friend.

I actually managed to get my first kiss at 18, although I went until earlier this year without any more. Which was sad. But I've never had a boyfriend or any kind of real relationship, mostly due to a few bad choices on my part and a set of less than ideal circumstances. But oh well, such is life. So anyway; it's not perhaps "normal" in the sense of average, but every person has a different pace of life. Just go with the flow and take what opportunities come to you.

kissed in... 4th grade.. does that count? i think gf/bf's are over rated. find me a sugarmomma =D

wait why is this thread pointless without pics again?

pics of people not getting kissed by the person sitting next to them? ahaha!

No girlfriend yet.

Would just settle for a wife after a few years.

It's not a big deal. Obviously, if you haven't had a relationship yet, you've been rocking steady. If you're particularly disturbed, then maybe you should get out and mingle. Don't expect ladies (or guys?) to be crawling towards you while you sit on your computer.

I'm surprise to see a thread like this here. I thought only teenagers would think like this. Well, thing is, who cares? Does it matter? Does it make a difference if u been kiss before?

I don't think it really maters unless you've never asked someone out before or never went on a date. How do you know if you've met/not met the right person if you don't give them a chance. If you've gone 20+ years w/o finding someone slightly interesting to you, your standards must be high or you arent getting out enough. I've just realized after getting back into the single scene how hard it is to find someone these days. It's like all the good ones are taken/married....

Had tons of girlfriends in high school. Havent had one since so that makes it 4 years now.

yea.why worry?
as for me, had neither, and dont bother

Yeah neither for me too but I dont fret. There is bound to be a special someone for all of those that have not had one or the other or both.

Yeah, thats completely abnormal. We're all dooomed!!!!!!

Unfortunately I apply to stormdragon's post...
If you've gone 20+ years w/o finding someone slightly interesting to you, your standards must be high or you arent getting out enough.



Oh well. Im going back to Soompi IRC now.

I'm 20 (turning 21 in September) and I recieved my first kiss yesterday. The girl who gave me my first kiss is also my first real girlfriend. I previously had one that was online.

Never been kissed since highschool.. My first date when I was in grade seven.. We broke up for a short time.. so now i am still single and good-looking haha.. actually, i am full time student..

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dang! wats this for? is kiss a big deal?

^Its not like its a big deal, it just kinda shows how um... close you have been with someone else. They could make a virgin thread, but its sort of the same point.

i have 2 girl frens who are 20 and both havent kissed nor had a bf yet... but i just tell them, they're time will come when it comes.. but when im going thru bf problems i just tell them their lucky they dont have to deal with this crap!! lol

LOLS, You don't need that. What you need is a sugar-substitute-momma! Much healthier




What's up with the problems?!One of my friends has also bf probs. & she doesn't want me to listen. You know, girly talk . Just because I'm a man
Is it such a headache?!


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It doesn't make you abnormal, just lonely. Me too sometimes, but look at the bright side, you free! =P
about the kissy thing, its normal.. Unless you're uber good looking guy

Congrats! Hope you both stay together for a long time !

I haven't gave anyone a kiss, but i guess i've been kissed. Althought i remember it well, she probably doesn't, she was just probablyt playing around . It doesn't matter to me anyways, shes a not my type. Since then, nope, no kiss or even a girl friend. I guess i haven't really gone out enough, then agian, i may have high standards aswell. If I waited this long, what is to me a few more years?

21 going to be 22 in a month and still haven't found my s/o to share my first kiss with. no need to rush and i want to make it special.

*slowly raises hand*

i'm... saving my first kiss for my husband?

(LMFAO @ my lame ass excuse)

weeeeeee virgin lips =D

EDIT
... ok i just realized I posted again...

some pages forward =]

21 now, noy boyfriend still~ wahoo? lol

Me too. I'm 20 and haven't kissed. Its no big deal though.

I got my first kiss only a couple of months ago, when I was 19. I thought I was a "late bloomer" or whatever, and sometimes felt "abnormal" and left out when my friends would hook up with guys and whatever. but now i have a steady boyfriend (who was my first kiss) and am perfectly happy. Now my friends are the jealous ones...

and i know-- most people who havent had their first kiss is not because they're not attractive or dont go out much.

yea I haven't had a kiss or gf yet... But i'm frankly loving the single life =D My friends all complain too much about gf issues...

meh...cuz im gonna save it for my special one......

I actually have quite a few friends in this situation and they are definitely not "abnormal."

It doesn't apply to me, but I haven't had a long-term relationship for over 2 years soooo... yeah. Enjoying the single life and dating around, haha.

In two months time I will be posting my response here, it will say "Life is not a race, you all begin the same and up the same. Not point in hurrying it up, so just enjoy what life gives you. If life deals you a bad hand, turn it in for another one, eventually something good will come out." 2 months time this will be posted here. GL to you who still seek to be kissed and to those who still seek a mate. Rushing things never makes anything better.

well im a guy and not yet ^^ kissed or anything lol

doesnt bother me too much, and anyways I hear its kinda attractive to the opposite sex, or you could be classed as a complete loser but yea not really looking

Funny how ironic your advice is in relation to your insistence of posting in the forum before it's time.

why would it be abnormal?!

but this doesn't apply to me anyway...

Thats why it DOESN'T seem abnormal to you, for us its somewhat like proof that we're weird or somehow not socially acceptable to be deprived of something so trivial and so simple, yet so uh intimate. Yeah, I know people might use those terms for sex and all that, but lets think on a more simplistic level and all where we aren't so progressed socially and that close to someone else.